Confidently Introduce: What Outfits Are Suitable for Mothers on the Day of the "Meet the Parents" Ceremony?

〔Family Meeting〕About Mother's Attire＊

With the engagement decided, it's time for our families to meet for the first time.

Since this is a formal dinner where we exchange greetings of "I look forward to a long-lasting relationship,"

it's important to discuss not only your outfit but also your parents' attire in advance, to ensure that the family presents themselves well.

It's perfectly fine for the father to wear a suit, but the challenge lies in the mother's outfit.

What colors create a good impression? What style of dress would be best? How long should the skirt be?

There are many concerns to consider.

Perhaps the mother might be anxious, wondering, "What should I wear?"

Therefore, in this article, we will introduce what to discuss with your mother before the big day regarding her fashion for the family meeting.

Skirt Style / Dress is the Classic Choice＊

For the mother's attire during the family meeting,

a combination of [jacket + skirt] or a [dress] is the classic and safe choice!

Think of it as akin to the suits that mothers wear during school entrance and graduation ceremonies◎

Aim for a coordinated outfit that conveys a sense of neatness and cleanliness, as well as making a good impression.＊

What About Skirt Length and Style?

The ideal length for skirts and dresses is around knee-length or slightly longer.

As for the style, a soft and elegant flare skirt is recommended over a tight-fitting pencil skirt, which can be too clingy.＊

What About Colors and Patterns?

For colors, it is best to stick with classic shades like off-white, navy, and gray for an overall cohesive look.＊

Simple solid patterns are perfectly acceptable, but a patterned skirt can also add a touch of charm.

This part can be left to your mother's preferences.

One thing to be cautious about is to ensure her outfit is not flashier or more attention-grabbing than the bride's outfit.◎

What About Accessories and Shoes?

When it comes to accessories, keeping it minimal is best.＊

A simple necklace and a pair of earrings would suffice.

And of course, don’t forget the wedding ring!

Adding a floral corsage to the jacket can also add a lovely touch.

For shoes, it’s ideal to go with black pumps for a polished look.＊

Pre-Check Parents' Attire for the Family Meeting＊

We’ve discussed the key points regarding the mother’s fashion for the family meeting.

If the bride is wearing a kimono, the mother might consider wearing one too,

but in that case, it’s good to consult the groom's family just to avoid any misunderstandings.＊

Since this is the first time both families are gathering together, it’s likely that the parents will feel nervous.

It could be a good idea to have conversations like “Have you decided what to wear?” in advance.♩