Is It Considered Rude? Is It Acceptable to Wear a Long Dress to a Wedding Invitation?

[Question] Is it OK or NG to wear a long dress to a wedding invitation?

When invited to a wedding, it’s customary for women to dress up in a cute knee-length dress.*

But there might be some people who think like this:

✓ "I don't want to show too much leg..."

✓ "I would prefer to wear a long dress..."

✓ "I want to hide my thick legs and knees..."

✓ "I’m already in my thirties..."

And so on.

It's true that if you usually wear long skirts or pants, knee-length dresses might feel like too much like a mini skirt, making you feel embarrassed, insecure, and thinking it doesn't suit you. It's understandable to want to avoid that...

However, I feel like I don't see many people wearing long dresses at weddings, so is it even acceptable as a matter of etiquette?

[Answer] It's OK as long as you follow the basic etiquette rules!*

To conclude, wearing a long dress as an invitation dress for a wedding is not a breach of etiquette.

You can definitely attend a wedding in a long dress!*

But this is provided that you adhere to certain etiquette rules to some extent.*

When choosing a long dress for a wedding invitation, there are some points you should keep in mind, so let’s explain them.

Point 1: White and black are NG!

This may be obvious, but a white dress that evokes the image of the bride's wedding dress is absolutely NG, regardless of the length.

A long white dress would completely clash with the bride’s look...! Also, avoid light colors that are close to white.

Furthermore, wearing a long black dress to a wedding is generally advisable to avoid.

Since there is no leg exposure, it might give a dark impression, which could lead some people to associate it with a funeral.

If you choose to wear a long dress, opt for vibrant colors other than white or black, and select a design that doesn’t resemble the bride’s dress!*

Point 2: Avoid excessively long lengths!

When it comes to long dresses, there are various lengths such as:

① calf-length

② slightly above the ankle

③ a length where shoes or heels are partially visible

④ an evening dress length that drags on the floor

Among these, ① and ② are okay! Avoid excessively long skirt lengths like ③ and ④.

A length that shows the shoes and ankles completely is acceptable!*

Point 3: Try to avoid full lace!

While full lace dresses are very feminine and cute, it’s better to avoid such designs when wearing a long dress.

dresses that incorporate lace only in certain areas, like the arms or bodice, are perfectly fine.

However, if it’s entirely full lace, people might associate it with the bride...!

It’s not an absolute no-go, but it’s advisable to steer clear of full lace long dresses.*

Wearing a long dress might be a good option!*

If you decide to wear a long dress for a wedding invitation, be sure to consider the points discussed:

Point 1: White and black are NG!

Point 2: Avoid excessively long lengths!

Point 3: Try to avoid full lace!

Choose a design while keeping these points in mind.*

For silhouette, A-line dresses that flare out or long chiffon dresses are recommended, with colors like not overly sweet blue or lavender being great choices!♡