Convenient but Concerning: Is It Acceptable to Bring Our Smartphones to the Head Table at the Reception?

2019.07.12 published

Can I Take My Smartphone to the High Stage?

A common question from brides before the wedding is,

"Is it okay for the bride and groom to bring their smartphones to the high stage during the reception?"

Indeed, having a smartphone allows you to take endless photos and videos, which is super convenient!

When guests come to the high stage, you can take selfies with them,

and you can capture the precious atmosphere of the venue from the unique perspective of the bride and groom that others can't see.

However, I've never seen the bride and groom fiddling with their smartphones at the high stage,

and it seems like using a smartphone might not leave a good impression, raising questions about etiquette...

So it's understandable to be unsure whether bringing smartphones is okay or not.

The answer is YES! But be mindful of TPO!

The answer to whether "you can bring your smartphones to the high stage during the reception" is YES!

Of course, bridal gowns usually don't have pockets, so the bride can't bring it in herself,

but the groom can hold it in his pants,

or you can ask a close guest or your assistant to bring it into the venue beforehand.

But of course, just because bringing smartphones is allowed, it doesn't mean it's okay to use them unnecessarily!

Be mindful of TPO (Time, Place, Occasion) and only take out your smartphone in situations where it feels appropriate.

So, what situations might the bride and groom use their smartphones during the wedding?

For example, these situations:

✓ When guests come to the high stage, you can take selfies with your smartphone.

✓ During the socializing time, you can video call guests who couldn't attend.

✓ During the socializing time, you can snap photos of the venue as seen from the high stage.

And so on!

In any case, it seems best to take out your smartphone during relaxed times and primarily use it for taking pictures.

Of course, when guests arrive, put your smartphone down on the table for a moment and enjoy the conversation!

If possible, I'd love to prepare a special smartphone case!

And if you're going to take your smartphone to the high stage, how wonderful would it be to have a special smartphone case just for your wedding day?

Having matching smartphone cases is a sign of your closeness and could also serve as a photo prop.

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Bringing your smartphone to the high stage is an option!

Your smartphone, which you use every day, can be held by the groom or the assistant on the wedding day,

and if you have time during the socializing, it will be fun to take photos and videos with your smartphone!

Just be cautious about using your smartphone too much! Make sure to choose the right times and places, and use your smartphone wisely and enjoyably!