Not Just the Invitation Dress: A Guide to Shoe Etiquette for Weddings

2018.05.31 published

[Invited Wedding] Check the Shoe Manners＊

When invited to a wedding, there are many manners regarding the outfit you should wear on the day＊

For example, you must never wear a white dress, and it's better to avoid fur or leather materials...!

While it's easy to focus only on the clothing,

there are also important shoe manners that are surprisingly not well known＊

To avoid thinking, "I made a mistake...!" after arriving at the wedding, make sure to check the shoe manners thoroughly＊

Shoe Manners ① No Open-Toe or Sandals!

Open-toe shoes and sandals may be cute and cool because they show off your pedicure, making them popular in the summer,

but they should not be worn to a wedding.

The reason is that they are too casual, and there's a saying that happiness escapes from the toes,

but it also brings to mind “exposed toes” = “the wife leaves first (the wife leaves the house)”...

By the way, brides can wear open-toe bridal shoes＊

Shoe Manners ② Any Color is Basically Fine＊

For invited dresses, it's a rule that white or colors that look like white are not allowed,

but when it comes to shoes, it's basically okay to wear any color, whether it's white or black＊

However, you should avoid colors that are too flashy or patterns that are too unique...!

Just keep an eye on the overall balance,

and choose a simple, solid color or a design with a small accent like jewels or ribbons＊

@__ayanatsu__

Shoe Manners ③ Here are the Acceptable and Unacceptable Materials!

The most desirable material is patent leather, and satin, suede, sequin, and lace are also acceptable＊

What is strictly forbidden are animal-print materials like snake or crocodile leather! (This is because it evokes thoughts of killing.)

Additionally, avoid leather or hemp materials as well.

Shoe Manners ④ Avoid Too Flat Shoes＊

Finally, let's talk about heel height＊

Unless you are pregnant or have health reasons, the heel height should be at least 3 cm!

Too flat shoes are not suitable for formal occasions,

and if you are worried about hurting your feet, it might be a good idea to change shoes after arriving at the venue＊

@romin_wedding

Follow the Manners and Go Meet the Bride and Groom＊

We have introduced the shoe manners for when you are invited to a wedding.

While you may want to express your preferences and style in what you wear,

at a formal event like a wedding, let’s adhere to the manners and complete a lovely invited coordinate＊