For Those Who Don't Want to Toss the Bouquet! 18 Exciting Alternatives to Bouquet Toss: A Comprehensive Guide

What If You Don't Want to Do a Bouquet Toss After the Ceremony?

The bouquet toss is a classic element of weddings where the bride tosses her wedding bouquet to the unmarried female guests, with a superstition that the one who catches it will be the next to find happiness.

However, recently, there has been an increase in weddings that do not include a bouquet toss.

In weddings where there are few unmarried women among the guests or in weddings with older guests, alternatives to bouquet toss are chosen with the thought of not wanting guests to feel awkward.

So what kind of alternatives are being done? Here are 18 ideas to introduce! ♡

@haruno45

Alternative Performance 1: Bouquet Pull

The most commonly chosen alternative to a bouquet toss is the bouquet pull. The bride holds several ribbons, and the guests pull them from a distance.

Only one ribbon is connected to the bouquet like a lottery, and the guest who picks that ribbon gets to receive the bouquet as a gift. ♡

Since there's no need to step forward or run towards the bouquet, it is well-received as it's easy for guests to participate.

It seems that often women of both marital statuses are nominated to join in the fun.

@yuih_wd

Alternative Performance 2: Bouquet Gift

Another method is to designate someone you want to gift your wedding bouquet and present it in front of everyone.

Choosing important guests like sisters or close friends for a surprise gift is sure to bring joy. ♡

Sharing a memorable story about that guest adds to the warmth of the moment.

@beautifulbell22

Alternative Performance 3: Candy Toss

Instead of a wedding bouquet, you can toss a "candy bouquet" that bundles together candies.

The bride loves that all guests can easily join in regardless of gender. ♡ This is also recommended for weddings with many young guests.

The key is to wrap it securely so that it doesn’t fall apart when thrown. ◎

@arisa190921

Alternative Performance 4: Snack Toss

The snack toss involves throwing a mix of candies, which, like the candy toss, allows all guests to participate. ♩

➡You can purchase snack bouquets on Rakuten＊

@wedding__irk

Alternative Performance 5: Meat Toss

A very rare performance called meat toss!

It involves throwing a meat cushion and gifting a meat catalog to the guest who catches it.

It’s guaranteed to create excitement as guests will be ready to make a serious catch.

Alternative Performance 6: Parachute Bear

The featuring of a "Parachute Bear" performance, where the couple launches a rocket launcher into the sky.

The rocket launcher contains a small teddy bear attached with a parachute, which gently floats down to the guests.

Everyone is excited as they look up to see where the teddy bear will land. ♡

If you want to bring your own "Parachute Bear," you can purchase it on Rakuten. ♡

The price is around 25,000 yen for a set with the rocket launcher and the bear.＊

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Alternative Performance 7: Cushion Toss

Cushion toss involves throwing a cushion to the guests. Prepare some gifts in advance, and the guest who catches the cushion will receive a present later. ♡

Large cushions are not only easy to throw and won’t hurt if they fall, but they also look great in photos.＊

If you prepare separate gifts for men and women, everyone can participate. ◎

Alternative Performance 8: Plush Toy Toss

The plush toy toss involves tossing a favorite stuffed animal. This is a popular performance among brides who have favorite characters from Disney or Sanrio.

You can either gift the plush toy directly or have separate prizes prepared as gifts. ♡

@uni_wd0

Alternative Performance 9: Lottery Toss

Some have tossed capsule toys with lottery tickets inside.

There just might be a winner among the guests! ♡ A unique performance that keeps the excitement alive even after the wedding.

Alternative Performance 10: Pool Float Toss

Recommended for summer or resort weddings, the pool float toss! Guests catch large pool floats and receive prizes.

Choose cute and eye-catching designs like hearts or donuts! ♡

@chinasuke.wedding0715

Alternative Performance 11: Boot Toss

Couples who hold their wedding in the Christmas season might do a boot toss, filling boot-shaped bags with gifts.

It feels just like receiving Christmas presents, which is delightful! ♩

A unique and seasonal performance will leave a lasting impression on the guests.＊

Alternative Performance 12: Broccoli Toss

Now let’s introduce toss performances featuring the groom. The most classic is the broccoli toss, where the groom tosses broccoli toward male guests.

Broccoli symbolizes "prosperity of descendants," and it carries the hope that the recipient will live healthily. ♩

Guests who successfully catch the broccoli might be gifted mayonnaise or enjoy it on the spot, and everyone seems to be having fun.

@rm_wd202111

Alternative Performance 13: Pitching Toss

For grooms who are former baseball players, pitching toss is a great idea. Guests who skillfully catch soft baseballs are gifted prizes.

It brings nostalgic memories of school club days, and guests are sure to enjoy it! ♡

@nh.1118wd

Alternative Performance 14: Soccer Ball Toss

For grooms who are former soccer players, the soccer ball toss is a fun idea.

Guests who catch the ball can share memorable stories with the groom, leading to an exciting atmosphere! ♡

Alternative Performance 15: Cosmetic Toss

The idea of hiding cosmetics in the bouquet is a delightful surprise! ♡ A fun toss item that brings joy.

➡Learn how to make a cosmetic bouquet and its contents here! ♡

@nd_04.24_wd

Alternative Performance 16: Snack Throw

Now, let’s introduce performances that can spread happiness to everyone rather than just one person. ♡

A representative example is the snack throw, where the couple tosses tons of snacks to guests. This has been a traditional performance in Nagoya for a long time.

Many brides seem to choose local snacks. ♩

The snacks falling from the sky allow adults to relive their childhood joy! ♡

@chihiro_wedding1022

Alternative Performance 17: Mochi Toss

Next is the mochi toss, where guests are tossed red and white mochi.

This is a traditional and auspicious performance that has been done for new house celebrations.

Mixing heart-shaped mochi in with round ones, and gifting additional presents to the guests who catch them is a lovely touch.

Which Alternative Performance Will You Choose Instead of a Bouquet Toss? ♡

We introduced some ideas for performances to consider instead of a bouquet toss. ♡

Many of these performances are unique and sure to be enjoyable!

Brides who don't want to do a bouquet toss can rest assured.

Discuss together what kind of toss performance would be great for your wedding! ♩

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