Post-Wedding Regrets and Reflections: 7 Key Points to Keep in Mind for Your Pre-Wedding Photoshoot

2020.11.04 published

Looking Forward to Pre-Wedding Photos ♡

The most enjoyable part during wedding preparations is having a professional photographer take lots of pictures of you in your bride attire during the pre-wedding shoot.

Not only does it become a lifelong memory, but it also serves as great material for paper items and videos on the wedding day, making it a worthwhile experience ♡

@milkwd1104

What to Watch Out for in Pre-Wedding Photos?

While the pre-wedding shoot is something to look forward to, the fact that it can’t be redone can also bring some anxiety.

You definitely want to avoid later regrets like, “I should have done it differently…”

In this article, we’ll share some cautionary points based on real brides' pre-wedding reports regarding things they regretted during their photoshoots.

Future brides preparing for their pre-wedding shoot, take note! ♡

@ms_wedding6

Caution Point 1: Don’t Overprepare Props

Many brides wish to prepare lots of cute shooting items for the pre-wedding shoot to capture a variety of photos.

However, since there is a limited amount of time for shooting, some have felt rushed and hectic because they were too focused on taking pictures with props.

Moreover, some brides regretted later that they had too few simple photos without props.

It's recommended to prepare just 2 or 3 of your favorite props, and then enjoy the shoot in a natural state.

Remember, the stars of the shoot are the bride and groom, not the props! ♡

@ms_wedding6

Caution Point 2: Choose Props That Won't Fade in Color

Additionally, it seems that props with colors that are "a bit richer than you think" work best.

Even cute, soft colors that look good to the naked eye might fade in photos due to lighting, making everything appear washed out!

When gathering props, be mindful of how they will look in photos too ♩

@rabbit_kiss2

Caution Point 3: Keep the Shooting Instructions Concise

If there are specific poses you absolutely want, it’s smooth to share them with the photographer in an instruction sheet.

However, cramming too many poses and reference photos into the sheet can make it unclear which is the “most desired photo.”

There are instances where a photographer spent too much time trying to get various unimportant poses just because they were included as reference.

When preparing the shooting instruction sheet, focus on:

☑ Poses that you absolutely want

☑ One ideal reference photo per pose

Keeping these in mind seems best ♡

@yy16052012

Caution Point 4: Share with Your Partner

While the bride might be preparing various things for the pre-wedding shoot, it's common for the groom to lack involvement…

This can lead to issues where the bride’s “ideal pre-wedding image” is not conveyed, resulting in the groom being flustered and the bride feeling upset on the day.

Especially with detailed poses, it’s challenging to explain them verbally on the spot; the groom needs to understand them by looking at reference photos.

Before the pre-wedding day, make sure to spend some time together discussing, “Let’s take these kinds of photos” ♩

@yuu5781

Caution Point 5: Communicate What You Don't Want

While it’s important to express what kind of photos you want, it’s equally important to communicate the photos you don’t want.

For example, a bride may think, “I don’t want photos showing us being intimate, including kisses — it’s embarrassing for family to see,” but later regret not clearly saying "no" when the photographer suggested it.

There are also stories about brides regretting having too many photos taken from the right side, which they dislike.

Though it can be awkward to voice these dislikes, wedding photos are something you’ll keep for a lifetime.

If something crosses the line of comfort, don’t hesitate to express your feelings.

Caution Point 6: Don’t Forget to Capture Document Photos

Many brides have expressed, “I wish I had asked to get photos showing my hairstyle clearly.”

While there will be lots of stylish wedding photos, photos that record

☑ Hairstyles and accessories

☑ Nail art

☑ Bouquets

etc., are often not shot unless specifically requested.

@ms_wedding6

Since you’ve made thoughtful choices for each item, it’s crucial to get these captured in photos for future memories.

Remember to ask for close-up shots of each item.

@m__wdding

Caution Point 7: Get Plenty of Sleep

The final caution is to ensure you get a good night’s sleep before the shoot!

Many share hectic experiences of DIYing props or creating instruction sheets until late at night, leading to a sleep-deprived day.

However, if you're sleep-deprived, you might feel dizzy during the shoot, get dark circles under your eyes, feel fatigued, or become irritable — none of which is helpful.

Pre-wedding photoshoots can consume more energy than usual daily activities. Therefore, it’s essential to take extra care of your health and be in top condition for the shoot.

Prioritize sleep! ♡

Eliminate Anxiety and Embrace Your Pre-Wedding Shoot ♡

I’ve shared checkpoints for future brides preparing for their pre-wedding shoots.

Each point reflects regrets from previous brides. So, take the advice from those who came before and adequately prepare for your pre-wedding shoot! ♡

@locomai_wd1008

Check Out These Articles for Further Reference ♡

➡ During our pre-wedding meeting, the photographer asked, “Are there any photos you want to avoid?”

➡ I was asked by the photographer and got stuck! Considering “photos I don’t want” for the wedding.

➡ Less is more! Three key points for creating a shooting request for the photographer.

➡ Tips from an active photographer! Three mindsets to remember while taking wedding photos.