"Though It's the Guests Speaking! The Unexpected Reactions and Behaviors of the Bride and Groom Under Observation"

2021.01.17 published

The behavior of the bride and groom is being observed!

At the wedding,

☑ During the profile introduction

☑ During the friends' speeches

☑ During entertainment performances

There are many scenes where guests pay attention to people other than the bride and groom.*

At these moments, attention is drawn to the guests speaking in front, so the bride and groom tend to relax a bit…!

However, the truth is that even at this time, the bride and groom are being watched!

If they appear to have a serious or bored expression, it leaves a negative impression on the guests.

In this article, we will introduce the reactions and behavior that the bride and groom should be careful about while listening to speeches or watching videos during the reception.*

Share this with your partner and keep it in mind◎

When listening to speeches, be careful about: 1. Maintain good posture

The most important thing to remember is to "maintain good posture!"

While listening, one tends to relax and slouch.

When wearing a wedding dress and slouching,

☑ You look bored

☑ Your neck sticks out, making your face look bigger

☑ Your upper arms appear thicker

☑ The overall photo results are not good

There are plenty of downsides…!

Whether standing or sitting, keep your back straight, engage your core, and strive for a straight, beautiful posture.*

@tonko_wedding_miavia

When listening to speeches, be careful about: 2. Look up at the speaker

While listening to a speech, eye contact is an important point.*

It is basic to look at the speaker, but having a slightly upward gaze is good◎

Looking up helps prevent a double chin and enhances the visibility of your expression♩

If your gaze is lowered even while facing the speaker, it does not leave a good impression. So make sure to look up at the person you're talking to.*

When listening to speeches, be careful about: 3. Keep your mouth corners up!

Even while listening, be sure to keep your mouth corners lifted◎

Drooping mouth corners can create a gloomy impression, so it’s important to consciously lift them up when not speaking.*

Always create a fun and approachable atmosphere♩

When listening to speeches, be careful about: 4. Don’t play with your bangs!

You might have a habit of playing with your bangs while listening…

However, in a tense atmosphere where no one is moving, fidgeting with your bangs can be quite noticeable.

Both the guests watching and the speaker can’t help but notice when your hands go near your face…!

So, for those who have a habit of touching their bangs, be cautious not to do so unconsciously.

When listening to speeches, be careful about: 5. Laughing is okay!*

There might be moments in the conversation that make you chuckle.*

In such cases, feel free to laugh◎

When you do, place a hand over your mouth and laugh elegantly♩

When listening to speeches, be careful about: 6. Making eye contact with guests is okay!*

At the wedding, there will be moments during the host’s profile introduction where you’ll need to turn to the guests and listen.*

In such cases, if you make eye contact with a guest, smiling at them is recommended!

Instead of staring at the ceiling or looking down to avoid eye contact, slowly look around to see each guest’s face, creating a warm atmosphere.*

@yuih_wd

When listening to speeches, be careful about: 7. It’s okay to talk to the groom in some situations*

It's better to refrain from talking during speeches, but it’s okay to have a light conversation with the groom during lively times like entertainment performances.*

Constant chatting can leave a negative impression, but saying things like "That’s amazing!" or "When did you practice?" is perfectly fine♩

@tonko_wedding_miavia

When listening to speeches, be careful about: 8. Prepare a bridal handkerchief!

For emotional moments such as friends’ speeches, make sure to have a bridal handkerchief ready!

When wiping tears, to avoid rubbing your eyes, gently dab only the tears that have flowed from your eyes to minimize makeup smudging.*

@mikiting_wd

Always, at all times, be beautiful ♡

The wedding is the main event for the bride and groom.

Even if they are not the main speakers, guests are always watching the bride and groom.*

Always strive to appear beautiful, cheerful, and look like you are having fun, ensuring you don’t let your guard down and enjoy the day♡