Thoughtful Touches: A Collection of Message Examples to Include in Invitation Reply Cards

2019.09.02 published

The Section of <Message> That Is Always on the Reply Postcard＊

About 2 to 3 months before the wedding, the invitation arrives by mail at your home from the bride and groom.

When the invitation arrives, you must fill out the required information on the reply postcard and send it back (either by post or in person) by the specified deadline＊

You can easily jot down your attendance, name, address, and whether you have any allergies,

but every time, you find yourself pondering, "What should I write...?" especially for the <Message> section.

Just writing a simple "Congratulations on your wedding" might feel a bit lonely (or perhaps too curt?), and you're worried that everyone will write the same message, and that it might come across as lazy... This concern is something everyone feels.

Everyone wants to send a message that would delight the busy bride and groom, or even make them chuckle!

However, that said, it can be surprisingly challenging to figure out what the right message is, or what would please them, even though it's just 2-3 sentences...

Therefore, in this article, I will introduce examples of <Messages> to write on the reply postcard, categorized by your relationship with the bride and groom.

Feel free to add your own flair to these examples as you create your original message!

I’m sure they'll be delighted!!!

Example Messages for Reply Postcards ① When You Are a Female Friend of the Bride

"I'm really looking forward to seeing you all dressed up (in your wedding dress)!"

"I wonder if your dress will be _______ ♡"

"Excited to see what kind of wedding you will have ♡"

"You’re definitely going to look adorable ♡"

"Make sure to take care of yourself until the wedding!"

"If you need any help, just message me anytime!"

"I'm looking forward to meeting your husband!"

"I love how you two still act like a couple in love!"

"Once things settle down after the wedding, let me know all about it!"

"I'm so excited for your wedding, I can hardly wait!"

"I can’t believe we were both teenagers when we met! What a sentimental yet happy feeling ♡"

"You are my pride and joy, __________!"

"Let's still hang out lots after you get married!"

"Leave the performances to me! Look forward to it!"

"As the representative friend, I’ll do my best for the speech (registration, etc.) ♩"

Example Messages for Reply Postcards ② When You Are a Male Friend of the Bride

"Good luck with the wedding preparations alongside _______ (the groom)!"

"Wishing you all the happiness!"

"I can't wait to see the happy couple on the day!"

"I'll be there to cheer you on with all my might!"

Example Messages for Reply Postcards ③ When You Are a Female Friend of the Groom

"Wishing you all the happiness with _______ (the bride) for years to come!"

"Don’t forget to share your happiness with us ♩"

"Once things settle down, let's all grab dinner together!"

"I’m excited to see both of you all dressed up!"

"Make sure you hold on tight to _______ (the bride) and be happy!"

Example Messages for Reply Postcards ④ When You Are a Male Friend of the Groom

"Even after getting married, make sure to still hang out with us!"

"I never thought _______ would be tying the knot, what a surprise lol!"

"You better make _______ (the bride) happy!"

"I'll take care of the after-party, so leave it to me!"

"I can’t wait to see you in a tuxedo!"

"I’m so happy you’re marrying such a wonderful person like _______ (the bride)! Congratulations!"

"As a friend, I’m really thrilled about your marriage!"

"Let’s stay in touch even after the wedding!"

Example Messages for Reply Postcards ⑤ When You Are a Colleague of the Bride and Groom

"Congratulations to the always kind and capable _______! Truly happy for you!"

"I've heard so much about _______ (the groom), and now you two are finally getting married—I'm so happy for you both! ♡"

"Let's keep maintaining our good working relationship, personally and professionally, even after your marriage!"

"Let’s continue doing our best together!"

"I’m so jealous of _______ (the groom) for marrying someone as amazing as _______! You have to be happy! lol"

"When we first met as fresh graduates, I thought marriage was still far away, but look at us growing up! ♡"

"I know you're busy until the wedding, so if you need anything, feel free to reach out!"

"We’re planning a fun performance from our team, so look forward to it! ♩"

Example Messages for Reply Postcards ⑥ When You Are a Superior or Senior Colleague

"I’m truly happy to be able to work with you, _______! I’ll celebrate with all my heart on the big day! ♡"

"Thank you for the invitation! I feel blessed to be able to witness your new beginning as a couple."

"Wishing you both a long and happy marriage!"

"I’m really looking forward to seeing you in your wedding dress, _______!"

"I’m so happy to be attending the wedding of someone I respect, _______! I look forward to seeing you there!"

Example Messages for Reply Postcards ⑦ When You Are a Junior or Subordinate Colleague

"I’m truly happy that _______ is happy; it feels like my joy as well."

"Enjoy yourself on the day, _______! You’ve always been so supportive and helpful! ♡"

"If you need any assistance, just let me know anytime! Maybe we can grab lunch soon?"

"Wishing you a forever happy family! ♡"

Example Messages for Reply Postcards ⑧ When You Are a Cousin of the Bride and Groom

"If it’s okay, I’d love to visit your new home sometime!"

"I’m excited that I can see _______ more during New Year and Obon now!"

"With this, _______ is all grown up! ♩"

"I'm so happy for you, _______—it feels like my own happiness seeing you get married after playing together since we were little!"

"Let’s keep being close as a family!"

Let’s Send a Wonderful Reply Postcard to the Bride and Groom＊

The <Message> section on the reply postcard is something that the bride and groom are looking forward to!＊

Aside from just "Congratulations on your wedding," let’s enhance the postcard with the phrases introduced in this article to create a wonderful reply postcard! ♩