Absolutely Not Casual! Key Points to Consider for a Traditional Wedding.

2019.09.01 published

Dreaming of a Solemn Traditional Wedding!

While casual and natural weddings are popular these days, there are brides who wish to hold a wedding that feels traditional, solemn, and elegant.

A classical wedding held at a historic hotel or venue not only inspires admiration but also makes you feel the weight of marriage anew.

In this article, we will introduce points on staging and decoration for brides aiming for a solemn ceremony and reception, which are the exact opposites of casual.

Let's eliminate modern trends and aim for a timeless wedding style ♡

@a.h_0512

Tips for a Solemn Wedding① Avoid using recent songs for BGM

The first point is about BGM. In casual wedding receptions, it's common to play trendy songs to liven up the guests...

However, in a traditional wedding, classical music is recommended for BGM. When you hear Bach or Schubert playing in a restaurant, it immediately makes you feel you've arrived in an elegant space, right?

Majestic and grand compositions can evoke emotion in your guests.

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Tips for a Solemn Wedding② Implement a Candle Service

Next is the well-known table round performance during the reception.

Recently, many new and unique table round performances, such as fruit wine making and bread serving, have appeared, but a candle service is still recommended for a traditional wedding.

Historically, candles were treated with reverence as sacred flames to ward off darkness and evil spirits while calling holy angels.

When the bride and groom walk around the guest tables lighting candles, it symbolizes wishing happiness for the guests who have come to celebrate their union.

Finally, surrounded by many guests, the couple lights the main candle together, pledging their eternal love.

The candle service is not only beautiful but also a lovely ceremony with a significant tradition.

Tips for a Solemn Wedding③ Use Roses, Calla Lilies, and Orchids for the Bouquet

Wedding bouquets add charm to the bride's appearance. While designs featuring small flowers and greenery are popular in natural weddings, in traditional weddings,

☑ Calla Lilies

☑ Roses

☑ Orchids

are the classic choices. It's recommended to keep it simple without mixing various flower types or using greenery.

This will create a dignified and elegant wedding bouquet.

Also, for the ribbon tied to the bouquet, choose glossy satin ribbons instead of tulle or organza for an even more luxurious feel ♡

Tips for a Solemn Wedding④ Choose a Luxurious Imitation Cake

The wedding cake unveiled to guests at the reception. For solemn weddings held at prestigious hotels, a large imitation cake that resembles a work of art is a standard choice.

Guests will be amazed by a luxurious wedding cake, reminiscent of those seen at celebrity weddings ♡

Additionally, some brides opt for a classic three-tiered cake decorated simply with strawberries.

@j_y_wed

Tips for a Solemn Wedding⑤ Avoid DIY Items

Various DIY wedding items are trending, but if you want an elegant wedding, it's crucial not to display items that feel handmade.

Many brides select simple and tasteful items such as candles and photo frames for the welcome space ♡

Adding flowers to these selections can create a stylish atmosphere.

Tips for a Solemn Wedding⑥ Make the Head Table Luxurious

The head table is arguably the most important part of the reception venue. In a solemn wedding, a large and extravagant head table is favored.

Decorate the table with an abundance of flowers for a gorgeous appearance ♡

As with the wedding bouquet, it's recommended to avoid pastel-colored small flowers and choose chic, mature floral materials. Using branches from trees or cherry blossoms is distinctive for hotel weddings.

@0212wedding_yk

Tips for a Solemn Wedding⑦ Present a Bouquet to Parents

Finally, we introduce the gift to the parents. At the end of the reception, a memento is given to both families following the bride's letter.

There are various parent gifts like handmade clocks, portraits, and weight rice, but many brides opt to simply give a bouquet.

(This keeps the appearance uncluttered.)

If you absolutely want to give something else at the same time, it's better to present it later in a family-only setting◎

@achan.wedding

Create a Memorable and Significant Wedding.

We have shared tips to achieve a classic wedding that is the complete opposite of trendy natural weddings or overseas-style weddings.

Since many weddings today are more homey, this might actually seem fresh to your guests.

If you are someone who prefers “I don't want a bright, casual party!” and “I want an authoritative, classical feeling!”, this might be a helpful reference.

@mai_wedding0312