What does a surprise telegram from the bride to the groom mean?
Generally, telegrams are sent to the couple from people who couldn't attend the wedding to convey their congratulatory feelings, and are read by the emcee on the day of the event.
Many people might have seen bouquets, balloons, message cards, and stuffed animals placed at the reception or head table*
- The sender is the bride, who is the main character of the wedding
- The recipient is the groom, who is also the main character of the wedding
In other words, it's a surprise act where the bride, sitting next to the groom, has sent a congratulatory telegram in advance for him to read during the reception♩
What do you think?
It's definitely a surprising surprise that will be completely unexpected for men*
It sounds really interesting, doesn’t it? Don’t you want to give it a try?
How to prepare and the flow of the day*
Brides who want to try a surprise telegram should first consult with their planner and then prepare the gift and congratulatory message to be sent via telegram, delivering it to the venue in advance*
Bouquets or balloons are standard gifts.
However, choosing something that he has been wanting or something related to his hobbies would make him even happier♡
Then, at the timing for reading the congratulatory telegram during the reception,
the emcee should say, "Now, we have a congratulatory telegram for the groom from a very special person,"
and then read the message. That completes the flow.
You can hand over the gift at that moment or not, either way is fine♩
One thing to be cautious about is that before the wedding starts, the bride and groom will check the received telegrams
(to discuss the order, whether the contents can be read in front of everyone, and what to do if there are many to summarize)
During that time, make sure to ask the planner to keep your telegram a secret from him*
Now, here are examples of congratulatory messages the bride can send to the groom*
Example Message 1 from Bride to Groom
Thank you for marrying me, ○○.
Right now, I am the happiest person in the world because I get to be next to you.
Do you remember when we talked about wanting to build a happy family filled with smiles?
Let's work together to truly become that kind of family.
I will love you forever.
From your bride, ○○
Example Message 2 from Bride to Groom
How has the three years of dating with ○○ (bride) been, ○○?
You might be a little surprised to hear this, but the sender of this telegram is me, ○○.
I have been very happy for the past three years since meeting you.
And I can’t wait to walk through life together from now on.
I look forward to our long future together.
From your girlfriend turned wife, ○○
Example Message 3 from Bride to Groom
To ○○.
How do you feel on this wedding day?
I am filled with gratitude towards you.
Thank you for always listening to me and having fun conversations.
Thank you for taking care of me kindly when I catch a cold.
Thank you for making delicious meals and managing the household chores.
Thank you for planning fun dates.
Thank you for making me laugh when I'm feeling down.
Thank you for proposing to me.
And above all, thank you for making me your wife today.
From ○○, who is now beside you.
I can’t wait to see the look on his face sitting next to me ♡
A surprise act of sending a secret telegram from the bride to the groom*
I’m excited to see what kind of expression he will have and how he will react♡
I'm sure the guests will also be surprised and think it's wonderful.