"How to Hold Hands with Your Escort When Stepping Away: A Relationship-Based Guide"

2019.05.04 published
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When you take a break, do you hold hands or link arms?

During the wedding reception, there will be a scene where you take a break to change outfits.

During the break, you will ask your siblings, friends, or grandparents to be your escorts, right?*

At this time, have you thought about how you want to be escorted?

It’s standard to link arms when walking with the groom, but

when walking with someone other than the groom, it can be confusing whether to link arms or hold hands...!

So in this article, we will introduce the ways you can ask for an escort based on who you choose!

Escorting during the break: If it's a sister

If you ask your sister to be your escort, it's standard to hold hands tightly*

It reminds me of when we used to walk hand in hand as kids...♡

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@hana.nr.wedding

If your parents see you walking hand in hand with your sister, it will surely be heartwarming for them.

Many parents may shed tears, thinking about how much you've grown; it's bound to be a wonderful moment during the break!♡

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@0916hspan

Escorting during the break: If it's a brother

If you ask your brother to escort you during the break, linking arms like with the groom is standard*

Being escorted by a reliable older brother or younger brother creates a warm and cozy atmosphere.

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@e_wd212

Getting escorted like this can feel like you are a princess, which is lovely♡

It’s guaranteed to be an adorable scene.

Escorting during the break: If it's grandparents

If you ask your warm-hearted grandparents to be your escorts, holding hands is the standard*

Just like when you were little and walked hand in hand with them, let's hold hands tightly for the escort!♡

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@yco_wed

If both grandparents are escorting you, it's also perfectly fine to simply place your hands gently on theirs.

Keeping the connected hands raised a bit will look beautiful.

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@s_yucco890302

Escorting during the break: If it's friends

If you ask friends to escort you, either holding hands or simply placing your hands is perfectly fine.

If you're a bit shy about holding hands since you don't normally do that, maybe it's better to just place your hands on theirs.

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@china_y0924

If you ask your bridesmaids to escort you, it might be fun to have them hold the train of your dress as you exit, making it a lively scene like a performance!◎

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@ayayakko0812.1103

Escorting during the break: If it's your mother

If you ask your mother to escort you, it’s recommended to either hold hands like when you were little or have her place her hand on yours for a more maternal feel.♡

You could have the emcee ask, "Will you hold hands?" or "Would you like to place your hand?" and let your mother choose as well!♩

Who will you take a break with, and how?

Have you decided who you want to ask for your break escort and how you want to do it?

The break scene is an emotional one. It’s also lovely to include moments where you read a letter or give a gift to someone important.♩

Once you decide how you would like to be escorted, it’s a good idea to inform the emcee in advance so that they can guide smoothly with phrases like “Let’s take a break holding hands” or “Please take the bride’s hand to escort her”*

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