"Choosing a Subtle Gift for a Male Wedding Celebration: Survey Results on What Everyone Sent"

2019.06.06 published

What are good wedding gifts for men?

For male superiors, juniors at work, or male colleagues with whom you have a business relationship, as well as male friends. When it comes to "wedding gifts for men," don’t you find it quite challenging?

☑ If it’s too much from a female perspective, it might not please him.

☑ He might be unaware of brands (even if I give something nice, he may not appreciate it).

☑ I don’t know the wife’s hobbies (she might be a minimalist).

☑ If I give something too personal, the wife might dislike it.

☑ Things I can think of have probably already been gifted by the wife's friends.

And so on...

As a woman, it can be quite perplexing when I am choosing wedding gifts for male friends, colleagues, or acquaintances.

Since we received similar questions at marry, this time we conducted a survey on "What wedding gifts received by husbands were appreciated?" and "What wedding gifts have I given to men in the past?"

Here are all the responses we received♡

What are good wedding gifts for men? 1

I received a lot of wedding gifts from girls, but my husband only celebrated with drinks at gatherings and didn’t receive many physical gifts.

Watching me receive presents, he remarked, “Girls really get a lot!” (laughs)

The only gift he received was a pair of large plates from Francfranc! We already had couple bowls, so this unusual plate was surprisingly useful!

If it were me, I’d choose movie gift cards or travel vouchers that both the husband and wife can enjoy! ☺️

What are good wedding gifts for men? 2

I tend to be suspicious and jealous, so the thought of my husband having items from other women at home makes me feel sick....

I know the giver likely means no harm, but I can’t help but wonder what their intentions were.

Isn’t it similar to how a mistress might leave traces in a kitchen or bathroom to make her presence known? I’d want to throw it away immediately.

Just the fact that a woman is giving a wedding gift makes me question the nature of that relationship.

I think it would be best if my husband only had male friends. (Sorry for not providing an answer!)

What are good wedding gifts for men? 3

My husband received a pair of glasses 🥂

I am discussing with my male friends to give each other gift certificates 🤔💭

What are good wedding gifts for men? 4

My husband received a two-color pair bath towel from a friend.

I was happy to receive a thoughtful gift that could be used by me as well, even though they weren't directly my friend ❤️

What are good wedding gifts for men? 5

For mutual male friends of my husband, we gifted a pair of nice slippers!

I considered the wife’s preferences, but since slippers are consumables, I thought they wouldn’t mind receiving them. Personally, I think such gifts are not troublesome to receive 😌

Also, if the couple enjoys alcohol, then pairing gifts like liquor or gourmet snacks is also a good idea. ✨

What are good wedding gifts for men? 6

I gifted a case of beer to a male friend of my husband who loves alcohol!

Half of it was for laughs (laughs). Instead of beer vouchers, I gave actual beer.

He was quite surprised but seemed to appreciate it. It was a huge success 😂

This is because I heard through my husband that the dynamics at their home make the wife the dominant figure and since living together, he had to shift from his beloved beer to low-alcohol beer.

Options included beer vouchers or gift certificates. 🙋‍♀️ But with gift certificates, there’s a concern that the spouse might end up spending them... 🤔

I chose something tangible, but for starting a new life, gift certificates can be commonly useful, and I believe they wouldn't lead to any awkward misunderstandings from the wife ☻

What are good wedding gifts for men? 7

I have gifted a futon dryer and some nice towels!!

What are good wedding gifts for men? 8

When I asked what he was happiest to receive, he answered, "Meat!"

What are good wedding gifts for men? 9

I think towels are a safe choice ‪(*ˊᵕˋ* )

What are good wedding gifts for men? 10

I gifted Tiffany cups and a ring stand!

It seems that among men, the tradition of giving physical gifts is not very common, so I chose something classic that would appeal to the wife as well.

What are good wedding gifts for men? 11

As someone prone to jealousy, I don’t like it if my husband receives something tangible, so when I’m in the position of giving a gift, I choose things that won't remain!

I often give alcohol. A bit pricey sake or stylish beer sets are always appreciated!♪

What are good wedding gifts for men? 12

I sent a set of nice chopstick rests to a dear male friend from college. ☺️ It's a set of five.

Since I knew his wife, I’m not sure if it’s a good reference...

I handed over the gift with a congratulations while having tea at a cafe with two friends 😊 Both the groom and bride were very happy. ☺️

It can be difficult to choose gifts, worrying they might overlap with others. Depending on the bride's personality, I hope you find wonderful gifts 🥰

What are good wedding gifts for men? 13

Looking from the wife’s perspective, it feels complicated for my husband to receive things from other women.

I have also received congratulatory gifts from close male friends, but they were all cash. I think that’s better.

When I returned the favor, I gave consumables like detergent and I plan to give cash gifts when they get married.

What are good wedding gifts for men? 14

We have several gifts at home that my husband received from female friends.

Towel sets, room fragrances, and hand soaps are consumable items that I was happy to receive as a family.

I think gifts that eventually run out are less burdensome, and they don't raise concerns when gifted from the opposite sex.

What are good wedding gifts for men? 15

I presented champagne. I chose a sweet one, so my wife could enjoy it as well.

What are good wedding gifts for men? 16

If they enjoy drinking, I think alcohol is a good gift. We’re happy to receive it!

It’s heavy to buy, and getting something a bit special can make for a nice moment on anniversaries.

If you can choose a bottle that allows you to include a message or create a custom label, it would be memorable and appreciated.

What are good wedding gifts for men? 17

I’m not sure what kind of person the wife is, but I would feel a bit uncomfortable if my husband were to receive individual gifts from female friends 💦

However, if a couple of friends gifted something together or threw a party to celebrate, I wouldn’t mind!

What are good wedding gifts for men? 18

My husband received snacks! We gratefully enjoyed them together 😊

Also, he had a message plate prepared during a drinking party!

What are good wedding gifts for men? 19

We received pair mugs ❤️ with a Disney design. Since they are a pair, they don’t feel uncomfortable, and we still treasure them now✨

What are good wedding gifts for men? 20

I opted for a shoe care set!

I thought there are people who already have one, but for those who don’t, they might find it useful on occasion (^^)

What are good wedding gifts for men? 21

I think gift certificates or travel vouchers are good (^ - ^)/

What are good wedding gifts for men? 22

A stylish set of chopstick rests with Mizuhiki was a great gift! Even if they already have some, they won’t have too many, and it feels celebratory, so I recommend it ☺️

What are good wedding gifts for men? 23

I recently gifted a pair of chopsticks! It’s been some time since they got married, so I had a tough time deciding what to give.

When my friend gifted me something, they assumed I had received a lot of pair cups, so they gave me towels instead, leading me to think that chopsticks should be different from towels and cups.

I chose a fairly simple design rather than traditional couple chopsticks, making it something that could be used as guest chopsticks if they already have couple chopsticks.

What are good wedding gifts for men? 24

My husband received items such as a mini hot plate and an aroma humidifier, mostly kitchen gadgets that I would be happy to receive 😊

I think it’s great to gift items that can be used by both of them at home! Kitchen tools are great gifts that are unlikely to cause trouble!

What are good wedding gifts for men? 25

What made my husband really happy were the drinks 😃❗ We received a slightly sweet white wine, which I enjoyed too, and it made me very happy 😄🍷✨

Since it’s something that won’t remain (we can throw away the bottle), I felt it was a good choice 💡

What are good wedding gifts for men? 26

A Starbucks gift card 😊💓

It would be a great idea to add, “Go with your wife!” I think it’s something everyone would be happy to receive!

What are good wedding gifts for men? 27

I gifted bath towels and face towels (Imabari towels) along with a room fragrance.

Since I don’t often meet this friend, I was unsure of their preferences, and I chose gifts that wouldn’t overlap with others or would be fine if they did, as I presented them some time after the wedding.

Both items are consumables, but they are things that wouldn’t cause trouble even if there are many! I assumed they would be happy to have more.

The friend, who had lived alone for a long time, was thrilled to receive fluffy new towels. (^ ^)

What are good wedding gifts for men? 28

We received “Kayanoya Dashi” from a couple who are mutual friends with my husband.

Initially, I thought, “Dashi? I don’t often cook in such detail, so can I really use it?” but it turned out to be very convenient as it came in powder form just like regular granulated dashi!

Plus, it tasted great! My husband seemed very happy. The packaging is elegant and not overly cute, which could be a plus as well.

What are good wedding gifts for men? 29

I'd suggest a Bruno! I’m planning to give it as a birthday gift and a wedding present for a friend!

What are good wedding gifts for men? 30

I think a luxurious pair dinner voucher that they can enjoy together would be nice ❤️

What are good wedding gifts for men? 31

A photo frame 📷

What are good wedding gifts for men? 32

How about slippers, towels, preserved flowers, or chocolates that they can use as a couple? (^^

What are good wedding gifts for men? 33

My husband and I appreciated receiving a set of premium baked snacks that we wouldn’t usually buy for ourselves 😊✨

The contents were cute and showed that the giver considered both the husband and wife 😊 which made us happy! 🥰

Since the price was clear, it made it easier for any return gifts as well 👍 (laughs)

What are good wedding gifts for men? 34

A care set that includes Marks and Web shaving cream.☆

I thought something that lasts might be considered weird by the wife, and my husband said he would definitely use shaving cream, which he wouldn’t buy himself!

I contemplated getting a Thermos tumbler with a name engraved, but my husband mentioned that having a name on it didn't seem masculine enough. 😅

What are good wedding gifts for men? 35

If there’s a wife involved, food items that would make her happy were great to receive! 🤣

What are good wedding gifts for men? 36

Depending on the price, we received a hot plate from multiple people!

It also gave us a reason to invite friends over, which was great!

What are good wedding gifts for men? 37

He received an aroma diffuser and a photo frame for his room from friends!

Since I was happy too as his girlfriend, I think it’s a good choice 😉

What are good wedding gifts for men? 38

I gave a tea cup set to a male friend!

I thought this could be useful when having guests over 😊

I was happy with chopsticks and chopstick rests we received for our wedding since we could use them at every meal. 🙏

What are good wedding gifts for men? 39

We gifted couple chopsticks!

What are good wedding gifts for men? 40

Shoe care items seem to be very popular. ☺︎

What are good wedding gifts for men? 41

I gifted a hot plate 😊 it seemed he didn’t have one, so he was happy to receive it!

What are good wedding gifts for men? 42

I gifted some slightly expensive alcohol.

What are good wedding gifts for men? 43

I selected a gift for my male friend, but leaving that aside 😂🙌 I decided to gift HACCI's collagen drink for the bride to enjoy before the wedding!

I haven’t met the bride, so I just confirmed any potential allergies in advance!

Wedding gifts for men can be tricky.

I have introduced "wedding gifts for men that readers of marry have sent."

There were various kinds of gifts, but if you are looking for wedding gifts for men that won’t be seen as intrusive by the wife (neutral, everyday use items), these might be good choices:

☑ Gift certificates

☑ Cash

☑ Meat

☑ Experience gifts or tickets

☑ Brand towels

☑ Alcohol

☑ Shoe care sets

☑ Food and snacks

And others.

I think with friends, you can give a good range of gifts, but depending on the relationship (especially in a work context), there are many situations where “I have to give a gift due to my professional status, but it’s not a relationship where I can express familiarity through the gift.”

If you’re struggling with gift selection, feel free to use this as a reference.

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