Beach Wedding: What Shoes Should I Wear?

2019.07.09 published

What Should I Wear for Shoes at a Beach Wedding?

I have been invited to a friend's wedding.

It’s not an overseas resort wedding, but I’ve been invited to a chapel located on the sandy beach in Yokohama.

I’ve been told "no bare feet," so I must wear stockings, but I dislike the idea of wearing stockings by the waves, as they will likely get filled with sand.

The inside of my shoes will probably get messy too...

Should I forget about the sand and just go with pumps? If open-toed shoes are frowned upon, then there are no options but pumps...

It seems odd to wear sandals with stockings, and if a wedding is taking place on a beach, how should the guests dress?

Has anyone attended a beach wedding in something other than sandals?

What kind of shoes did you wear?

Should I just endure getting sandy? Besides, wearing heels seems like they would sink into the sand...

Yet, I also dislike the idea of wearing flat shoes with a knee-length dress. I wonder what everyone else does ><

Here are the gathered responses.

What Should I Wear for Shoes at a Beach Wedding? [Response 1]

I have no experience, but if it were me, I'd wear thigh-high stockings and change my shoes after the ceremony🧸💕

What Should I Wear for Shoes at a Beach Wedding? [Response 2]

So the bride and groom said no bare feet, right? 💦

That request surprises me...💦

How about wearing shoes with wedge soles or any heels except stilettos?

What Should I Wear for Shoes at a Beach Wedding? [Response 3]

How about telling your friend, "We can’t dirty the reception venue, so could you ask the planner what kind of shoes past guests wore?"

If you’re close enough to be invited to the wedding, I think it's fine to ask without hesitation. ☺️

What Should I Wear for Shoes at a Beach Wedding? [Response 4]

I was invited to a wedding in Okinawa.

During a photo shoot, I walked on the beach in heels. Other female guests were also walking on the beach in high heels.

It seemed like they were enjoying making holes in the sand. There was wind, but I didn’t end up getting too sandy at all.

There were times sand got into my shoes, but I could just shake it out, so it wasn’t too concerning. As long as the shoes aren’t too loose, not too much sand gets in.

Also, I walked quietly and carefully to prevent sand from getting in. Everyone was doing the same, so I enjoyed observing that scene.

Acceptance is important, haha.

What Should I Wear for Shoes at a Beach Wedding? [Response 5]

When they say no bare feet, doesn’t it mean "please wear sandals or shoes for safety"? 😂 (Sorry for turning it into a question…)

Maybe I’ll wear sandals and put on stockings at the reception...

Getting sandy... I can’t stand it either 😂

What Should I Wear for Shoes at a Beach Wedding? [Response 6]

It’s quite rude and selfish of the bride to give directives when guests are coming especially for the event and then add to their troubles. 😳

I mean, when they say no bare feet, doesn’t it imply wearing something?

It’s not okay to be barefoot on the beach, but sandals aren’t barefoot, so isn’t that fine? It feels like a misunderstanding; I think you should confirm...

Whether it’s heels on the beach or sneakers or loafers, it seems rather strict and inconsiderate.

What Should I Wear for Shoes at a Beach Wedding? [Response 7]

I wore cute sandals ❤️ I think asking is the fastest way ^_^

For my best friend’s bridal party and my own wedding, I wore adorable white flower sandals ^_^

It Seems Like Dressing Normally Might Be Best.....???

A wedding in Yokohama is not a resort.

Since it’s not a resort, the attire is the same as for a regular wedding, but since I need to walk on the sand during the ceremony, I’m troubled about my shoe choices....

Since I’ll be walking on the sand during the ceremony, if I wear sandals, I feel like it might seem out of place in a regular reception venue, and to avoid seeming rude,

"Wearing pumps on the beach feels too casual."

"I dislike the thought of getting sandy."

"Walking on the sand in heels and making holes feels sad."

Eliminating all those dilemmas, it seems best to go with the usual wedding guest fashion.

(I wonder what the etiquette and norms about weddings even are...)

As a precaution, bringing a spare pair of stockings sounds good.

But first, it seems wise to discuss it with friends or the bride and groom.

@asack_wedding