For a Lifelong Commitment: Questions Men Want to Ask Their Partners Before Proposing

2021.01.07 published

What Men Want to Ask

Previously, I published an article that became quite popular.

➡︎ Things I Want to Know Before Spending a Lifetime Together! 100 Questions About Our Values and Past That Are Hard to Ask But Should Be Asked

Articles like this list of questions serve as a good excuse to ask or talk about things that are hard to bring up on your own.

So, here’s a sequel.

I gathered voices from the men around me to create a list of “Questions Men Want to Ask Women When Considering Marriage.”

Questions Boyfriends Want to Ask Their Girlfriends but Find Hard to Bring Up

【1】 Have you ever cheated?

【2】 Do you like me?

【3】 Do you want to have a wedding?

【4】 What kind of wedding do you want?

【5】 Do you want to take wedding photos?

【6】 Do you have a desired ring?

【7】 Do you have a dream proposal?

【8】 When do you want to get married?

【9】 Do you even want to get married?

【10】 Do you want to continue working after marriage?

【11】 What is your ideal married life?

【12】 How do you want to manage finances after marriage?

【13】 What is your current income and savings?

【14】 What do you spend your money on each month, and how much?

【15】 Is cleaning a pain for you?

【16】 Is cooking a pain for you?

【17】 Is laundry a pain for you?

【18】 Do you dislike being a full-time housewife?

【19】 What would you do if I told you to quit your job?

【20】 What would you do if I couldn't work anymore?

【21】 Do you want children?

【22】 How many do you want?

【23】 What if we can't have children?

【24】 What do you think about adoption?

【25】 Do you want to have a home birth?

【26】 How many do you want?

【27】 What about work if we have children?

【28】 Will you move with me if I have to transfer?

【29】 Do you want to live close to your parents' house?

【30】 Where do you want to live?

【31】 Is living in a multi-generational house acceptable?

【32】 Do you have a dream of owning a home?

【33】 Are you pro owning a house or renting?

【34】 What do you think about divorce?

【35】 What do you think about separation?

【36】 Do you want to get along well with my parents?

【37】 Is the food I make delicious?

【38】 Do you dislike it if I add salt to the food I made?

【39】 Do you dislike it if you leave food that I made?

【40】 Have you ever thought you couldn't forgive me for something?

【41】 What is the saddest thing you've ever experienced?

【42】 Are you more of a saver or a spender?

【43】 Do you like pets?

【44】 Are you a registered donor?

【45】 Have you ever donated blood?

【46】 Do you like your parents?

【47】 Do you have any debt?

【48】 What is your family's religion?

【49】 Do you have any male friends that I don't know about?

【50】 Do you meet your male friends in places where I don’t know?

【51】 Do you dislike being sexless?

【52】 What would you do if we became sexless?

【53】 What would you do if I cheated on you?

There are many questions...

This was a list of questions that boyfriends want to ask their girlfriends when they are considering marriage (but find hard to ask).

There are surely many more questions depending on the person.

Use this list of questions as a conversation starter and ask, "What else?" or "Do you have anything else you want to ask?" to exchange values and opinions that are usually hard to bring up.