"Giving Bouquets and Gifts to Parents: 4 Different Approaches for Your Own or Your Partner's Parents"

There are 4 patterns for presenting gifts to parents.

After reading the bride's letter, the couple presents a bouquet and commemorative gift to their parents in a "parents' gift presentation" performance.

It's a heartwarming family moment that moves guests to tears, seeing the father, who usually doesn't cry, shedding tears, or the mother and father sharing warm hugs as they cherish each other (aaw... so wonderful...) ♡

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There are 4 ways to present gifts to parents.

① Straight: Handing gifts directly to one's own parents (the most traditional!)

② Cross: Handing gifts to the in-laws

③ Double: The couple presents gifts to each set of parents in turn together

④ Combining straight and cross

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Here are explanations of each method＊

Gift Presentation Method ① To one's own parents

First up is the most classic method: handing gifts directly to one’s own parents.

This method is commonly used at weddings and feels the most natural to onlookers, as there are no questions or discomfort regarding the presentation＊

The emotional bond between a parent and child makes it a touching moment, signifying the final time as a family together.

Gift Presentation Method ② To the in-laws

The cross method, where the groom presents gifts to the bride's parents, and the bride presents gifts to the groom's parents, is also a great option＊

(Depending on the region, this method was commonly practiced in the past!)

This approach shows respect to the other set of parents and conveys a greeting of "we look forward to working with you from now on.”

It's especially recommended for couples aiming for a formal atmosphere and valuing etiquette.

It seems to be chosen when feeling a bit shy about presenting gifts to one's own parents...＊

Gift Presentation Method ③ In turn

Next is the double or twin method, where the couple presents gifts to their respective parents together.

First, the couple stands before the groom’s parents and presents the bouquet and gift. Then they do the same for the bride’s parents.

By performing this together, it gives a more respectful impression＊

However, unlike the straight or cross methods, this method takes more time since both sets of parents are honored separately, so it works well if there is ample time in the schedule, particularly for family weddings or small gatherings.

Gift Presentation Method ④ Combining straight and cross

Lastly, the method that combines straight and cross.

First, the couple hands a bouquet to their own parents, then switches places to present gifts to the other parents.

It’s delightful to directly convey feelings to both sets of parents♡

When changing positions, it may be good for the groom to assist to ensure a smooth transition.

How to present gifts to parents?

We introduced four patterns for presenting gifts to parents.

Discuss with your partner how you would like to present the gifts and choose the method that feels the most satisfactory for both of you♡

May it be a wonderful family time!

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