More as a Person than as a Bride: Essential Etiquette to Keep in Mind for Your Wedding Day

2019.11.27 published

Be Careful Not to Act Unconsciously in This Way＊

The Wedding Ceremony is a Stage that Attracts Guests' Attention＊

During the screening of the profile movie, during conversations, and during guest performances, it’s essential to maintain an awareness that you are “being watched by many guests♡” even in the most casual moments.

Even if you are dressed beautifully, if you exhibit some disappointing behavior that you aren’t aware of, how terrifying would it be if guests were watching you...?

In this article, we will share the minimum etiquette that both the bride and groom should be careful not to display during the wedding ceremony.

@shi0riri

Minimum Etiquette During the Wedding Ceremony ①

There may be moments during the ceremony when you accidentally cough or sneeze.

In such cases, facing the guests while coughing without covering your mouth or nose is absolutely unacceptable.

If you act like this in places like trains or at the office, people might think you lack consideration for those around you or that you are rather careless.

Additionally, covering your sneeze or cough with your hand is generally advised against, as it may spread viruses.

Therefore,

If you feel a sneeze or cough coming on, be sure to lightly cover it with a handkerchief to avoid making loud noises.

@yuih_wd

Minimum Etiquette During the Wedding Ceremony ②

The way you hold and use your fork and knife, as well as how you eat, is another important manner to be mindful of.

During the wedding, the bride and groom (especially the bride) often have very little time to eat.

However, if you find some time and think “I can eat now!” it’s important to eat with graceful and proper actions without rushing through the meal＊

You definitely wouldn’t want to see a bride in a beautiful dress chomping away, making loud noises, having her tongue out, or pushing her knife instead of pulling it...

Just one misstep in how you hold or eat with your utensils can give a poor impression, so it’s a good idea to review how to eat and use cutlery before the wedding.

Minimum Etiquette During the Wedding Ceremony ③

Next, let’s talk about the importance of making eye contact.

While it’s crucial to look at the main guests giving speeches or those performing,

an often overlooked aspect is making eye contact during table rounds or while giving away small gifts during farewells.

For example, when you go around the tables during the round, you might hear “Congratulations!” or “You look beautiful!” from the guests.

If you can make eye contact and respond with “Thank you” or “Enjoy!” to each person, it significantly enhances the guests' impression of you＊

Instead of focusing on just one person (especially if they are a close friend) or just the camera, looking around at everyone’s faces creates a pleasant time for all as you engage in communication with one another♡

When handing out small gifts, be mindful not to glance around excessively, but rather focus on responding kindly to the guests in front of you.

@wedding____25

Minimum Etiquette During the Wedding Ceremony ④

Finally, pay attention to using language and behaviors that may seem rough or careless＊

For instance, when friends gather at the head table and share laughter, gestures like clapping or opening your mouth wide while laughing can convey a very fun atmosphere, but specifically “clapping” contrasts sharply with the image of a beautiful and sacred bride....

Also, try to use polite and gentle words instead of casual language like “that’s crazy” or “so much” that you might use in everyday life.

During the reception, choose behaviors that you wouldn’t be embarrassed to have anyone see＊

@kiki1118_wd

Things to Keep in Mind＊

① Cover your mouth and nose with a handkerchief when sneezing or coughing.

② Be careful with how you hold and use your fork and knife.

③ Make eye contact and communicate with the people speaking or those nearby.

④ Avoid any actions or language that may seem rough or indecent.

These four points are a constant moral and manner that you should be mindful of both as a bride and as a person＊

Please maintain minimum etiquette and always be aware that someone is “watching you,” ensuring that you have a wonderful wedding ceremony♡

@yuih_wd