Is the Host Male or Female? Which is Better When You Have a Choice? Reasons and Impressions from Everyone's Selections

Is a Male or Female MC Better?

The "MC" at a wedding is an important presence that greatly influences the atmosphere of the event♡

"I absolutely wanted to ask〇〇-san, so I outsourced the MC!"

"I wanted a relaxed and funny, homey atmosphere, so I asked a Kansai dialect MC♡"

Many brides and grooms are particular about choosing their MCs.

But!

In reality, if you haven’t decided on 【who you want to ask】, choosing based on 【gender】 alone may help you control the image of your wedding more easily.

(Male and female MCs are completely different!!)

When I used to work at a wedding venue, I often received requests like, “Anyone is fine, but please have a male MC” or “I don’t know, so anyone is fine, but I prefer a female.”

So how does the gender of the MC change the atmosphere of the wedding???

Also, what reasons did other brides have for choosing the gender of their MC?

Here are some reasons for choosing a male MC and reasons for choosing a female MC respectively＊

Reasons for Choosing a Male MC①

Since a female MC is likely to cheerfully say “A~~n♡” during the first bite, I found that lightheartedness awkward and disliked it, so I asked a calm male MC to help.

It was a great decision, especially since I invited many company colleagues to our hotel wedding!

Reasons for Choosing a Male MC②

Since it was a wedding with only close friends, I asked a male MC who used to be a comedian＊ He was bright and lively, which really boosted the reception!

There was a moment during the groom's side performance that didn't go well, but he humorously followed up, which was very helpful.

Reasons for Choosing a Male MC③

Because I had studied abroad and my partner works for a foreign company, I asked a male MC who could speak both Japanese and English to host the event.

Most guests understood Japanese, but there were a few guests, like the boss's wife, who didn't understand Japan at all. I thought specific wedding phrases might sound difficult, which is why I made this request.

The boss's wife was pleased, and my Japanese friends commented, “It was so cool, like a foreign wedding!”＊

Reasons for Choosing a Male MC④

I wasn’t fond of the high-pitched voices typical of female MCs, like "〇〇- san! Congratulations!" and I wanted a solemn wedding, so I requested a male MC.

I expressed that I wanted to prioritize conversations, and he actively guided guests to the main table, which was very helpful.

Now, let's look at the reasons for choosing a female MC＊

Reasons for Choosing a Female MC①

There were several MCs to choose from at the venue, but I chose the youngest and prettiest one! (Honestly, everyone had a lovely voice, and it seemed like it wouldn't matter who I chose.)

I'm glad to have been able to ask someone beautiful on such a special day♡

It was well-received by the groom's friends too!

Reasons for Choosing a Female MC②

I had a strong image of wedding MCs being female, so I asked the most experienced one at the venue!

I didn’t manage to catch the bouquet during the toss, but she quickly followed up with, "That was just practice, let's try again," which I thought was impressive.

Her calm manner of speaking was well received by family members.

Reasons for Choosing a Female MC③

I asked a female MC who had a wonderful smile!

I really wanted the wedding to have a bright and cute atmosphere, and she fit that image perfectly♡

Since the MC often appears in photos, I personally think it's better to choose someone cheerful and refreshing rather than a difficult-looking man or older person!

Reasons for Choosing a Female MC④

I selected a calm female MC who was perhaps just a bit younger than my mother.

She elevated the energy with her clear voice and had a gentle way of speaking during quiet moments like reading letters, which added rhythm to the wedding.

During the preparations, she listened carefully to the bride’s unique concerns, so I am glad I chose a female MC.

Choosing an MC is Important＊

The atmosphere of the MC at a wedding is really crucial!

☑ Prefers a calm atmosphere

☑ Hotel wedding

☑ Many company-related guests

☑ Wants to incorporate humor and performance

☑ Traditional wedding

Brides with these preferences tended to choose a male MC

☑ Wants a bright and glamorous atmosphere

☑ Guesthouse or restaurant

☑ Wants a homey atmosphere with friends

☑ Garden or resort-style setting

Brides with these preferences were more likely to choose a female MC.

However, the choice isn't solely based on gender; the character and age of the MC also play a role.

If you have the opportunity for a meeting beforehand, it would be great to find someone you truly want to ask, saying "I want to ask this person♡"