The Ultimate Dilemma! Should You Choose a Full Eternity or Half Eternity Wedding Ring?

2020.04.30 published

A Consultation from a Bride-to-Be♡

We received a dilemma consultation from a bride-to-be for marry.

Here's the content＊＊

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I'm sorry for such a carefree question at this time 🙇‍♀️

I'm about to choose my wedding ring, but I'm unsure whether to go for a full eternity or a half eternity with diamonds 🥺

I love sparkles and feel like I want a full eternity, but I'm anxious about being unable to resize it. However, I also feel like a half eternity might be a bit lacking...

Do you think I could be satisfied with a half eternity?

Which do you think is better, half eternity or full eternity...??

For those who chose half eternity, why did you choose half?

I would also like to hear from those who went for full eternity!

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This is a tough dilemma....!

Between full eternity and half eternity, the price difference can be about 1.5 to 2 times, so I understand the feeling of wanting it but worrying about it being too expensive and what to do if I can't wear it anymore after resizing...!!

(To be honest, I had the same worries myself.)

Personally, I think that people who want a full eternity might regret it if they end up buying a half eternity... But what is the general situation regarding wedding ring choices out there??

I conducted a survey through marry's Instagram stories aimed at brides-to-be and those who are already married, so I will introduce all the responses＊

【Responses】

I chose half eternity!

Usually, I display the diamond side, but during wakes or funerals, I feel it's inappropriate to be too sparkly, so I chose it to be able to show the platinum side when needed.

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I’ve heard that if the stones are set on the entire ring, there’s a possibility of injuring children or important things in the future when they touch.

It's recommended to go for a half eternity since it doesn't risk damaging important items.

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I chose half eternity!

Considering the price, I'm also worried that having the diamonds on the palm side might cause damage, and since only the top is visible, I feel satisfied!

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With a half eternity, I can turn it around to use it simply, so I thought it could work for when I'm older or in formal situations.

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My first present from him was a necklace. Back then, it was the first time I encountered that jewelry brand... (it's very famous, but I was ignorant...)

There were so many cute and simple designs, and it became my favorite brand from then on ♡

Since then, I wanted to purchase my engagement and wedding rings from that brand ♡

I didn’t particularly mind whether it was full or half eternity; I just bought the design I liked the most in pairs from that brand ♡

I felt that a full eternity might lose some matching sense with my husband's ring, so I chose half eternity!

The cute ring I picked myself is soothing to look at, and just wearing it makes me feel happy. Since it's an important ring, I believe it's best to choose the one you like the most so you won't regret it ♡

【Response】

I'm a jewelry advisor, and not being able to resize is a deal-breaker, and having diamonds on the palm side can lead to them getting hit often, increasing the risk of them falling out!

Let’s go for a half eternity that’s filled with stones all the way to the sides!

By the way, if you absolutely want a full eternity, I recommend going to a shop that offers a guarantee for resizing or one that is made with a stronger technique known as forged.

I'm not sure if resizing is possible for full eternity (many shops don't carry full eternity), but I believe shops like iPRIMO offer size exchange guarantees!

There are also shops like 4°C that offer half-price repairs for the first time you lose it.

【Response】

I wanted a full eternity because I love sparkles, but I gave up when I heard I couldn’t resize it!

I ended up with a half eternity, but when the stones rotate to the palm side, they can catch on my face when I wash it, or the soap gets chipped, so maybe I could have done without the stones.

So I think half is more suitable for everyday life than full.

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We're still discussing engagement rings, but… I also love sparkles, but simply found it difficult for daily life, so I had my engagement ring made as a half eternity‪☺︎‬

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I have a half eternity for my proposal ring, and a full eternity as my wedding ring.

When comparing the two, I found that with half eternity, the diamond part can easily rotate towards the inside of my hand, which can be annoying, so I personally prefer full! ✨

【Response】

I wanted half eternity before even going to see the rings, so I made it my wedding ring 💍✨

Full eternity is also very lovely, but it’s considered inappropriate to wear sparkly jewelry during funerals...

If I have half eternity, I can just turn it around to hide the sparkly side when needed! 👏✨

Additionally, when pregnant, fingers can swell, so resizing may sometimes be necessary. Although I didn’t resize it, after birth it got harder to take off! (laughs)

【Response】

Having the option to resize is reassuring 🤗 I thought I'd be fine since my body shape doesn’t change much, but the shop staff told me that women can have their sizes increase over time from doing housework 🤔✨

This is just one example, though! I’m satisfied with half eternity because the sparkling part is visible to me 🤗💗 (laughs) I hope you find a wonderful wedding ring!

【Response】

I bought a full eternity ( ˙꒳​˙ ) I was drawn to the sparkling ring with diamonds all around!

As a nurse, I can’t usually wear it, and I didn't have the luxury of an engagement ring either 😭💔 I wanted to make it pop more than anyone else for a once-in-a-lifetime ring (laughs)

I know I can’t resize it, but I thought it would be good pressure on myself to not size out (ง ˙ω˙)ว

I just received it in April, and when I wear it on sunny days, the sunlight reflects off of it, sparkling so beautifully that I can’t stop looking at it॰˳ཻ̊♡

Since it’s full, the ring was a bit expensive, and I feel guilty for having my fiancé go through that, but when I look at the ring, I feel grateful to him, and when I admire it, he also smiles happily, so I'm glad I went for full eternity (*⃙⃘´꒳`*⃙⃘)

I think it’s good to think, "I’d rather not regret going with half than to choose something I don’t love." I hoped to ask for a simple ring in the future for anniversaries 😊

But I worry that with full, I might scratch it when doing chores ⚡︎ (laughs)

It absolutely should not be lost!!

【Response】

I work at a jewelry store.

Half eternity can also have designs like Hawaiian jewelry, which can be designed halfway, making them look sparkly due to the design.

If you're worried about feeling unsatisfied or about resizing, you might want to consider such options!

【Response】

If it's within the same budget, consider going for half eternity and making the individual diamonds larger, so you can create a glamorous ring that full eternity lovers will like.

Personally, I think a half eternity with larger stones looks more sparkling compared to a full eternity with smaller diamonds.

【Response】

I chose half eternity! At friends' weddings or glamorous events, I display the diamond side, but during funerals or less glamorous occasions, I turn the plain silver side up!

Also, since I have children, when I wear a full eternity and hold them or if I grip hard, the ring digs into other fingers and hurts, so that’s another reason I chose half eternity.

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I went with half!

I love how it allows me to change the mood according to the occasion, especially for funerals (specifically) 💗✨

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I chose half eternity!

I thought it would be nice for when I want to wear it on another finger someday. Full eternity hurts between the fingers 😭

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I went for half eternity!

It matched well with my engagement ring, and I can rotate it to the other side according to the occasion.

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If the main stone of the half eternity is large, I think the satisfaction will be higher than that of a full, and it has a sense of luxury that I believe can be worn for a lifetime, which is why I chose half!

【Response】

Full is beautiful, but I chose half because I was concerned that my size might change due to pregnancy or aging, and if I want to not be too flashy, I can simply rotate it.

For that, I chose larger diamonds!

【Response】

If resizing is not an option, half might be better. I initially bought size 8, but recently changed it to size 7!

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I really wanted a full eternity, so I had a tough time, but in the end, I bought it.

During funerals, I can just take off the ring, and at home, I usually tend to take off my ring, so it doesn’t bother me during chores or while bathing.

【Response】

I chose half eternity!

The reason is that I fluctuate in weight, so I thought I would eventually need to resize it, and since my engagement ring is Tiffany's Harmony, I had already decided that my wedding ring would also be the same Harmony.

I didn’t hesitate, but when I wear it, sometimes the diamond ends up turning to the inside, which can be annoying, so I think full might actually be better.

However, since with full, it's common to hit it while washing glasses, I think it may be often removed during daily activities.

As someone who tends to lose or forget things easily and is rather lazy, I think half suits me better,

Being that I only view the ring from the back of my hand. Since it’s something I’ll be wearing every day, I think it's important to consider your personality when making a choice.

【Response】

I decided on half because I was concerned that a full eternity might not be appropriate for some occasions.

Though I'm not sure if it’s the correct approach, during times when wearing a sparkly ring might be inappropriate, I turn it so the diamond side is facing away.

Since I can also resize it, the half eternity matched better with my engagement ring! 😌

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I chose half because the stones will catch on sweaters or stockings when they’re on the palm side, which I thought would be inconvenient, so I opted for half. 😕

Also, for occasions like weddings or funerals, I can turn the non-stone side toward my palm, changing the mood when needed 💍

I even switched brands because the brand I initially wanted only had full eternity options, but upon finding a brand that offered half, I was satisfied to choose either option.

I think it’s great if you can choose whichever makes you feel wonderful every day! 🕊

【Response】

I have a half eternity wedding ring.

With full, the diamonds come on the palm side, so during tasks where I grasp things, I might bump it a lot, which would be concerning. I think having the option for resizing is better for wedding rings.

However, from your message, it's clear you really want a full eternity, so I believe choosing a design you’re satisfied with the most is paramount, since it’s something you’ll wear every day.

I hope you find a wonderful ring! ☺️💓

【Response】

I chose a half eternity!

The reason is that during religious events, I can turn it to hide the sparkles so I don’t have to take it off!

Also, considering the possibility of needing to resize later... with full eternity, I thought it might become unusable. 😵

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I work as a jewelry store clerk! Personally, I recommend half eternity 💗 I also have a half eternity!

Diamonds are the hardest material in the world, so having diamonds inside raises the risk of scratching bags when you put your hand inside. 😭

As fashion jewelry, full might be great, but for a lifelong wedding ring, I think half eternity is more practical 💗

There are various designs for half eternity, so if you choose one where the individual diamonds are large and clearly visible, it’ll look really sparkly and is highly recommended! 💗

【Response】

For funerals, it's good to have the non-diamond side displayed, so I chose half. 🙆‍♀️

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I went with a half eternity! The reason is that during funerals, I can flip it over, and it will look like a simple ring. 💍

【Response】

If you think you could be satisfied with half eternity, then half is perfectly fine.

If you're not satisfied, then you might want to go for full eternity.

【Response】

As expected, I'm worried that I can’t resize, so I'm half-favoring! If you also have an engagement ring, I think having a slightly simpler wedding band will help highlight the engagement ring when worn together. 💓

【Response】

Considering that resizing is allowed, and thinking about daily wear or occasions (mainly funerals), I believe half eternity would be more practical!

By rotating it, it won’t stand out during funerals. Plus, with an eternity, don’t you worry about stones falling out?

I love sparkles, too, but I think you can be quite satisfied with half ❤️

And if you still desperately want an eternity ring, I think you’ll have opportunities to buy one outside of your wedding ring. ☺️☺️

【Response】

Half eternity is versatile as you can turn it around according to the occasion.

In times of mourning, it’s inappropriate for it to be sparkly.

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I went with a single diamond, but my friend who sold jewelry said I could wear it during formal occasions if I turned it backward, and I was also told that when wearing it regularly, there’s a chance it could snag on clothing.

I heard that if a full one loses even one stone, there’s no way to fix it....

So if it's something you plan to wear for a lifetime, I personally think half eternity would be better ☺️

【Response】

I work in jewelry making ☺️ I recommend half eternity because:

① You can have it resized

② You can set birthstones or engrave it inside.

If you feel a lack of satisfaction, instead of a rail-setting that hides the edge of the diamonds, opting for a glamorous shared-prong setting that allows the diamonds to stick out a bit more could be beneficial!

If you want sparkle and stability, selecting a rail-setting with a milling known as “milgrain” will enhance the sparkle and make it more gorgeous.

【Response】

For universal occasions, I prefer half.

【Response】

I prefer half eternity for my wedding ring 💍

I’ve worked in a certain jewelry shop before, and I was really conflicted about going with full eternity with plenty of diamonds 😖💦

However, with full eternity, I worried about stones potentially falling out...

I often wear my wedding ring and find that when doing dishes, the inner part can easily hit, and if I think about having stones on it, I start to panic 🌀

Therefore, I believe half eternity is more suitable for a wedding ring you wear every day 💓

I still dream of a full eternity, so I plan to request one for our Sweet Ten anniversary or some future milestones. 😊✨

I hope you find a beautiful ring!

【Response】

I also struggled over whether to have a full or half eternity for my wedding ring.

I asked the shop staff about the pros and cons of each, but they recommended half eternity.

(For example, they said that if you hold something heavy or receive a shock, the ring might bend, leading to the risk of losing the diamonds.)

However, since the design of the ring I wanted was full eternity, I discussed with my fiancé, and he said, “Isn’t it best to get what you’ve always wanted? If you compromise, you’ll regret it later!” So I decided to go with full eternity.

As for me, I typically only wear my rings when going out, and I take them off while working or when at home, so unless something serious happens, I don’t worry about bending or losing any diamonds.

【Response】

I chose a gold half eternity ring!! 💍

The reasons for my choice are twofold.

First, with full, it hurts when washing my face.

Second, I can’t usually wear flashy rings for work.

The store staff also mentioned, “If you turn it around, it’ll look like a simple ring, making it a two-way piece!” 👌 I plan to use it that way at funerals and other events.

What are your priorities???

About the question of whether to choose a full or half eternity wedding ring, I've published all the responses received＊

By the way, in the survey format, here are the results!

Once, I asked a salesperson at Tiffany's, and they told me that very few people go for full eternity wedding bands, making up less than 10% of the total.

The main reason is that you cannot resize them, and even those who love sparkles tend to choose half eternity for wedding rings, keeping the full eternity for fashion rings or to celebrate milestones after giving birth.

Risk-wise, it’s definitely for the best....! Makes you feel more secure.

However, my ring is full eternity, and I love how it sparkles 360 degrees when seen from the palm side!

(When buying, I was slightly worried about how it might look from the palm side, but actually, it's cuter! ♡)

The choices of whether to prioritize risk or preference really reflect your personality.

Consider how you want to approach this?? I hope you can select a ring that you feel satisfied with! ♡

Choosing a ring has surprisingly turned into a form of self-discovery and is quite interesting!