A Male Version of the Bridesmaid Gift: Introducing the "Groomsman Box"♡
2021.10.19 published
Groomsman Box Instead of a Bridesmaid Box ♡
A Common Practice Overseas: The Bride's and Groom's Attendants (Bridesmaids & Groomsmen/Usher) *
They coordinate with matching dresses and accessories to help the bride and groom, adding a beautiful touch to the wedding! ♡
When asking someone to be a bridesmaid, it’s customary to give a little gift known as a "Bridesmaid Box" ♡
This typically includes matching earrings, bracelets, lip products, snacks, and a message card. *
And although it’s not very common in Japan...
Friends of the groom who will be groomsmen also receive a "Groomsman Box" ♡
What’s Inside the Box?
The contents of the Groomsman Box are similar to those of the Bridesmaid Box, consisting of items to wear at the wedding and small gifts ♡
The gifts often include alcohol and tumblers. It seems that they are sometimes given for use at the "bachelor party" held solely for the groom's friends before the wedding. *
<Items for the Wedding>
☑ Tie or Bow Tie
☑ Socks
☑ Suspenders
☑ Belt
☑ Cufflinks
☑ Tie Clip
☑ Boutonniere
☑ Handkerchief
☑ Sunglasses (as photo props)
<Gifts>
☑ Alcohol
☑ Tumblers or Glasses
☑ Snacks like olives or nuts
☑ Soap
☑ Card Case
It is typical to select about 3 to 5 items from this list to create the set. *
Examples of Groomsman Boxes Given *
【1】
A glass case filled with socks, suspenders, and a bow tie. The coordinated backing adds a nice touch! *
The glass case can have the name written on it and can be used as a storage box. *
【2】
An elegant wooden box containing Yamazaki whiskey, a whiskey glass, a bow tie, and suspenders. The brown color theme is stylish! *
【3】
A box with olives, peanuts, a sommelier knife, and a cocktail kit. A perfect gift for a friend who loves alcohol! ♡
【4】
A set with a tie, bow tie, cufflinks, and a boutonniere. The paisley tie will likely become the centerpiece of the outfit! ♡
【5】
A box filled with sparkling wine, a succulent plant, honey, lip balm, and soap! A luxurious Groomsman Box! *
【6】
A set that includes sunglasses, a tumbler, and socks ♡
It’s common to write on the message card, "Will you be my Groomsman?" *
Let's Prepare a Groomsman Box Too! ♡
Offering a Bridesmaid Box for bridesmaids is becoming a popular way to show hospitality among fashionable brides ♡
But not only that, giving Groomsmen a Groomsman Box will surely make the groom’s friends happy too! ♩
Since Groomsmen are not very common in Japan, I think they will be surprised, thinking "What a fantastic gesture!" or "I can't believe I'm actually doing what I often see in overseas dramas!"
They will play an important role by helping, cheering up the reception, and taking photos together, so when you ask them, let’s hand over a box with matching items plus a thank-you gift for them to enjoy! ♡