"I Want to Have a Friendly Argument with My Husband! A List of Compliments to Foster a Loving and Close Relationship"

2021.06.03 published

I Want to Exchange Positive Words♡

Being praised is truly delightful.

Especially when praised by someone you like, it brings immense joy. As a child, it was from parents, teachers, and coaches.

As adults, it's from partners, colleagues, and various others.

When someone says things like "You're amazing!" or "As expected of you!" it really makes me feel like I'm great and truly reinforces my self-esteem.

High self-esteem is incredibly important as it allows us to enjoy our daily lives smoothly. I believe it’s ideal to build a relationship in which couples can live by exchanging positive and encouraging words.

In this article, I've listed as many phrases as possible that I consciously try to vocalize to keep a loving and friendly relationship with my husband.

@haruno45

(I used the name "Kei-chan" as a placeholder. Please replace "Kei-chan" with your husband's name while reading. 🙇‍♀️)

Positive Words to Convey to My Husband＊

✅ "Kei-chan, you're such a great cook!"

✅ "You should be appointed the head of product development at Seven-Eleven!"

✅ "Kei-chan, your hair smells so good!"

✅ "You look handsome every day!"

✅ "You look handsome in the morning too!"

✅ "Kei-chan looks handsome at night as well!"

✅ "Kei-chan, you have a cute sleeping face!"

✅ "This carrot is delicious because you bought it!"

✅ "The flowers you brought home last long because you got them!"

✅ "You have long legs!"

✅ "A man with good posture is really wonderful!"

✅ "Washing under the bath stool is impressive!"

✅ "The cake you bought is incredibly delicious!"

✅ "I was just craving a shortcake! How did you know?!"

✅ "These shoes look like they were made for you!"

✅ "You're so good at grilling fish! You should be on Iron Chef!"

✅ "Kei-chan, you're so funny that I end up with a stomachache!"

✅ "You're good at storytelling! Please become a YouTuber for everyone!"

✅ "Your skin is so smooth!"

✅ "Did you prepare the towels? I thought I was at the Ritz Carlton!"

✅ "You have long fingers! I've heard that people with beautiful fingers are popular!"

✅ "Have a good day! Don’t let anyone fall for you at first sight!"

✅ "How lucky is ◯◯ for being able to work with such a smart Kei-chan?"

✅ "Even someone as capable as Kei-chan forgets to lock the door?! There might be a meteorite falling tomorrow!"

✅ "Did you use noodle soup for this? It tastes like a top-class restaurant! It tastes like the broth from a professional kitchen!"

✅ "Did you carry those heavy bags? You're the number one reliable man!"

✅ "It's amazing that such a wonderful Kei-chan was raised by your parents!"

✅ "But who would have thought you would grow up to be such a handsome and charming son? It's impressive!"

✅ "I was thinking of throwing this away! Did you notice?! I thought you were using telepathy!"

✅ "Kei-chan, you care too much about your friends! I wanted to be one of your friends! But I still prefer being your wife!"

✅ "It smells so good near your mouth!"

✅ "Are all men as kind as you, Kei-chan?"

✅ "Today, the laundry doesn't smell! Maybe it's because you hung it out!"

✅ "You bought the avocado, so it’s perfectly ripe!"

✅ "The seasoning is just right! It’s tough to get it just right at restaurants, but you’re a genius!"

✅ "Your voice is great, you should become a narrator!"

✅ "It’s amazing that you know about such a place!"

✅ "The ripeness is just perfect! You’re like a melon connoisseur, Kei-chan!"

✅ "Did you cover me with the blanket after I slept? Thank you! I feel the love!"

✅ "Because Kei-chan is so handsome, my grandmother seems to be proud!"

✅ "You're the most handsome in the world!"

✅ "I never thought I could marry someone as ideal as Kei-chan—I'm so happy!"

✅ "Just having Kei-chan by my side makes me happy every day! I feel fulfilled!"

✅ "I love you! I really do!"

✅ "I feel like you evolve and become more handsome every day since we met!"

✅ "This outfit looks great on you! Everyone will want to copy it!"

✅ "You're so strong!"

✅ "Where did you find this? I was looking for it! It’s amazing that you found it!"

✅ "These socks match you well!"

✅ "It’s incredible how easily kids warm up to you!"

✅ "Even your nostrils are cute!"

✅ "Your skin is so fluffy!"

✅ "This picture looks great! I'm going to make it a favorite!"

✅ "But I also really like this picture! Want to see my favorites list?"

✅ "You hold your chopsticks beautifully! As expected of Kei-chan."

✅ "What did that person just say? You heard that well! It’s remarkable that your ears are so good!"

✅ "Can you lend me your phone charger? You're a savior!"

✅ "You have such great memory to remember something from so long ago! You might need to be registered as a Living National Treasure...."

✅ "Did you get praised at work? The company must be so lucky to have you there!"

✅ "I'm so happy to be with you today, Kei-chan! I think I'm the happiest person in the world!"

✅ "You bought ice cream?! I think I'm the happiest in ◯◯ (your location) thanks to you, Kei-chan!"

✅ "You have great music taste too!"

✅ "What a smart way to handle that payment!"

✅ "You fit the image of the ideal man perfectly!"

✅ "You are a perfect score of 500 billion out of 100!"

How was that?＊＊＊

Did you find any phrase you think, "I want to say that to my husband too!"...???

If you’re not used to it, you might think, "I can't say such embarrassing lines! It sounds fake!" But getting used to or making something a habit is truly powerful!

If you keep repeating such phrases and words of encouragement, they will become standard over time; it’s a mystery. You’ll be able to say it from your heart and accept it effortlessly!

I hope to cultivate a relationship like in the West, where we can praise each other without feeling embarrassed and that such an environment will positively affect our children as well.

If there are any of you who feel, "I’m embarrassed to compliment someone face-to-face! But I want to try doing that!" then please!

Start from today!＊

@haruno45