At 28, My Choices for Items (Aside from Rings) That Would Make Me Happy to Receive with a Proposal!

Proposal Problems.

Hello, this is Nagisa from marry.

This article is aimed at men who are thinking, "I want to propose to my girlfriend!" ♡

I work at marry, a wedding idea site. I am a 28-year-old woman, married, and most of my friends are also married.

My job gives me many opportunities to see Instagram, and I've heard and seen a lot about people's "proposal situations" both in real life and online. ♡

Because of this, I often get asked by acquaintances, "I want to propose soon, but what should I do?" It seems that people think, "If I ask her, she will tell me everything about proposals."

One of the most common questions is, "What else can I give besides a ring during the proposal?"

Until now, I had been answering these questions individually, but since I've been asked quite a few times, I thought there might be a demand for it... So I decided to create a summary article.

Here, I will introduce "things that women will be happy to receive besides the ring" to give during a proposal＊

I believe you will see a happy face on her ♡

Things That Make Her Happy to Receive During a Proposal ① Bouquets

When it comes to gifts during a proposal, the classic choice is, first of all, a bouquet.

The most classic proposal is a bouquet of 108 red roses. Each number of roses has a meaning, and the flower language of 108 roses is "Please marry me."

➡ Summary of Rose Language by Number

While the standard color is red, if your girlfriend likes cute things, pink might be a good choice. If she has a softer image, white would be suitable. Choosing according to her preferences will make her feel, "You thought about me! ♡"

➡ Summary of Rose Language by Color

A bouquet of 108 roses costs around 15,000 to 30,000 yen. You can either order in advance at a florist or purchase it on Rakuten.

It's often the case that florists may not have stock available if you just show up without a reservation, so make sure to prepare properly in advance!

➡ Purchase 108 Roses on Rakuten

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Things That Make Her Happy to Receive During a Proposal ② Tiffany × Steiff Bear

Speaking of proposals, giving a bear that is a collaboration between "Tiffany," which is synonymous with proposals, and "Steiff," the first company in the world to make stuffed animals, is also wonderful.

It's cute, playful, and stylish! ♡

When I saw someone actually giving this during a proposal, everyone in the marry team praised it, saying, "What exquisite taste...! I'm so envious of such a husband."

The price for the 27cm bear is 62,700 yen, and for the 41cm, it's 96,800 yen.

➡ Tiffany × Steiff Collaboration Bear

Things That Make Her Happy to Receive During a Proposal ③ Rose Bear

The flower bear, which is popular for surprise gifts during overseas proposals, is a bear made of artificial flowers or preserved flowers. ♡

Unlike a bouquet, it doesn't wilt, so its appeal lies in its ability to be kept forever.

On Rakuten, it is priced at 5,980 yen. *

➡ Purchase the Rose Bear Here

Things That Make Her Happy to Receive During a Proposal ④ Balloons

A large transparent balloon called a "bubble balloon" is also one of the things that bring joy when given. (It's about 39 cm in diameter, which is really big!)

It's large, cute, and photo-friendly, and the fact that it doesn't deflate for a while (over a month!) is another charm. Holding a balloon naturally emits a happy aura (just like in Disneyland ♡), which boosts happiness even further.

Just having one as decoration makes the space much cuter! ♡

You can have a balloon that simply says "Will you marry me?" or have two more balloons saying "Yes" or "No" for her to choose from… I've received requests from men for this as well. *

I also recommend the hand-held size "balloon bouquet." You can choose various flowers inside, like baby’s-breath or sunflowers, but the type that includes the "crystal flower" from the aurora series is the most popular for proposals! ♡

➡ Here is the Balloon Purchase Page

Things That Make Her Happy to Receive During a Proposal ⑤ Bridal Shoes

This is a popular proposal item in Korea, and giving "bridal shoes" during the proposal feels romantic like Cinderella.

First, find out her shoe size and look for a pair that matches your thoughts! ♡

Popular brands for bridal shoes include Jimmy Choo, Louboutin, and Manolo Blahnik (these cost around 100,000 yen, so they are on the expensive side!). If your budget is around 20,000 yen, options like DIANA or choosing shoes from the department store, such as Staccato or Jill Stuart, might work well.

➡ Bridal Shoes Article List

Things That Make Her Happy to Receive During a Proposal ⑥ Desired Items

It’s also lovely to “give her something she has been wanting instead of a ring during the proposal.”

Make sure to research what she likes or what she has been wanting! ♡

Whether it's a watch, a bag, or a scarf, being given something she truly desires is always wonderful! ♩

There was someone who shared, "I was so touched to receive the full SK-ll line that I've always said was too expensive to use many times when he proposed! What a great husband!"

While SK-ll is skincare that may not feel very proposal-like, it was undoubtedly the best present she could have received at the moment! ♡

Things That Make Her Happy to Receive During a Proposal ⑦ Photos and Videos

It may be a little embarrassing from a man's perspective, but...

It is also nice to have photos or videos that capture the moment of the proposal. They become treasures! ♡

Having videos or photos allows you to vividly recall the happiness of the moment you were proposed to.

A friend told me, "When I fight with my husband, I go back and watch the video of when he proposed to me to remind myself of my feelings for him."

When proposing at a wedding venue or hotel, there are options to hire a photographer or videographer. If proposing at home or in a hotel room, setting up a hidden camera in advance might be a good idea! ♡

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Things That Make Her Happy to Receive During a Proposal ⑧ Letters

The last thing I want to introduce is a "letter."

A heartfelt letter from someone you love is the most invaluable and wonderful gift.

Even if you don’t usually write letters, think of it as a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity! (Though ideally, you would write them even afterward.) How about writing down what you love about her and your thoughts on marriage? ♡

May it be a wonderful proposal ♡

I introduced presents that would be delightful to receive during a proposal <other than rings> ♡

I know preparing everything can be challenging, but

✅ Ring (Proposal Ring)

✅ Bouquet

✅ Decorative Items (such as balloons or candles)

✅ Commemorative Items (like stuffed animals or shoes)

✅ Letter

✅ Photos or videos of the moment of the proposal

If you prepare just these, she will surely be very satisfied! ♡

I support you in creating a wonderful, romantic proposal that will be a lifelong memory for both of you!

➡ 【Survey Results】 Here’s What She Might Think If the Proposal Didn’t Go as Planned…

➡ Articles on Proposals