A Thoughtful Touch: Including a Card that Says "Wear What You Love" on Invitations is a Guest-Friendly Gesture!

Invited Fashion, Always a Dilemma...!

Is this something that all women experience?

When it comes to fashion for attending weddings,

Even if I personally think,

“I want to wear this cute outfit~~~~♡”

I end up wondering,

“But wait, this is a sleeveless dress, is it too much exposure...? Is it okay to wear sleeveless at my age... I really don't want to cover it up with a shawl, but should I at least be prepared for the ceremony? 🤔”

Or I think,

“This outfit is a little flashy, but the color and design are exactly to my taste. However, everyone else will probably come in more subdued attire, so should I stick to a more neutral outfit to avoid standing out...?”

Or,

“I don’t want to show my legs, but is it okay to wear pants? But if it’s too casual, that wouldn’t be good either, so I guess wearing a skirt would be the safer choice. 😭”

These thoughts make it difficult to wear the fashion I really want and truly desire...

At first, I was excited to see lots of cute dresses, but as I start to imagine the reality, I tend to gravitate towards more ordinary, classic styles.

Creating a card that says “Wear any outfit you love” is wonderful♡

But!

As a bride, I wouldn't be happy about that.

As a bride, I want my guests to feel free to wear any outfit they love and think is cute without worrying about anything else.

To convey that feeling,

The idea of including a message card in the invitation that says “Wear any outfit you love” feels considerate and lovely♡

This bride included a “Dress Coordination Card” along with a request card for her female guests.

- Favorite colors and accessories

- Sleeveless dresses

- Pants styles

- Flat shoes

By conveying that the bride herself is okay with the above items, which guests might be hesitant about, it reassures them, “Good, I can wear pants!” ♡

This is such a kind and thoughtful arrangement, right?

Guests Feel Reassured♩

I'm just grateful and happy that people can attend the wedding.

Many brides probably feel, “I want all my guests to come in their favorite fashion; they shouldn’t have to worry about anything!”

By including a dress coordination card in the invitation, I think guests will feel more at ease when choosing their outfits♩

It’s a message that would be appreciated from a guest's perspective. Please try to mimic this idea!♡