Which One Should You Use? The Difference in Meaning Between "Happily Ever After" and "Happy Ever After"
2021.05.18 published
Phrases to Conclude a Story*
In picture books and fairy tales,
it often starts with
"Once upon a time ..."
and ends with the classic happy ending phrase,
"... and they lived happily ever after."
The final line "Happily ever after" is also commonly used in wedding paper items, movies, and welcome spaces♡
The Happy vs. Happily Dilemma.
When using this phrase, sometimes it can be confusing whether it's
"Happy ever after"
or
"Happily ever after."
You often see "Happily ever after," but there are instances in posts by foreigners, movies, and songs where "Happy" is used, so I was curious about which one is correct and did some research.
Conclusion: Neither is wrong.
To conclude, using either phrase is not incorrect.
The difference lies in whether "Happy" is an adjective or "Happily" is an adverb.
While the usage differs, both can create sentences with the correct meaning, so it's not an error.
(As an adjective)
They were happy ever after.
They were happy ever after.
(As an adverb)
They lived happily ever after.
They lived happily ever after.
However, "Happily" might be more common.*
When using this phrase in a wedding context, I think most people envision the meaning of "They lived happily ever after."
Therefore, it's more appropriate and common to use
"Happily ever after"
following "They lived ..."
Brides who want to include this phrase in their paper items or welcome items should consider this recommendation!*