A Miracle I Thought Would Never Happen Again in Life! Reflecting on the Wonderful Moments of a Wedding

2021.08.27 published

The Greatness of Wedding Ceremonies Revisited!

Recently, I was shown photos from a friend's wedding, and I was deeply moved.

I realized that a wedding is a series of extraordinary events.

Once again, I thought, "Weddings are truly amazing." So, I decided to recall those moments and write an article about them.

@___ohayoo

① Arm in Arm with Dad

During the ceremony, while walking down the aisle.

Don’t you think it’s rare to even think about linking arms with Dad after reaching puberty...???

As an adult, having the moment to link arms with Dad is special.

And to capture that beautifully in a photo is even more precious.

I imagined that such opportunities might not exist without a wedding... and I thought that just this alone makes it worthwhile to have a wedding, whether from a father's perspective, a daughter's view, or a mother's point of view.

(In fact, I haven't really touched my dad's skin in over 10 years... It's made me reflect a bit.)

@mmmmx326

② Hugging Mom

For instance, after the veil is lifted during the ceremony.

I can’t remember when I last hugged my mom; just watching it brought tears to my eyes.

It’s rare to have a special moment where Mom says, “Congratulations” in such a setting, so I truly felt that weddings are special occasions.

@komugi_0830

③ Expressing Gratitude in Front of Everyone

✅ To friends

✅ To family

✅ To relatives

✅ To your partner

Expressing gratitude happens daily, but that’s usually done "directly to the person," right?

It’s heartwarming to be praised in front of others.

Saying thank you to everyone at a wedding gathering is a formal occasion, and expressing gratitude publicly makes it feel special for both the giver and receiver, creating a meaningful opportunity.

④ Reading Letters

The bride’s letter and the place card messages.

Whether read on the spot or just handed over.

Writing a letter makes you sit up straight and carefully ponder your words.

The sentiments you want to communicate while reflecting on your lives and relationship carry a weight different from regular chats, LINE messages, or phone calls.

A received letter is a treasure for life.

The special time of a wedding allows for opportunities to say things that might be too embarrassing in regular conversation, making writing and receiving letters a precious gift for everyone involved.

@gift_wd0922

⑤ Taking Photos in Special Outfits

Especially family pictures.

Is there any other occasion besides weddings where the whole family and relatives dress up and have a professional photographer take beautiful photos...?

(I've certainly not had that in my life.)

Even that alone makes me think that there's a reason for everyone to gather for a wedding; it truly is a rare treasure.

@kana.u_u.7

⑥ Family Speaking About You

Scenes where Mom and Dad say, "This child is such and such..."

Hearing parents leave messages about their child, especially in a formal setting in front of everyone, was incredibly moving.

Traditionally, the groom's father might give a speech at the end of the reception, but having parents talk about their child in front of everyone is a profoundly touching moment. I highly recommend incorporating interviews with both families as a part of the wedding program!

(This could be during a thank-you bite or included in a video message.)

@nagisa_marry

⑦ Being Told "I Love You" in Front of Everyone

Not just in the privacy of your home, just the two of you.

In this world with nearly 8 billion people, isn’t it an incredible experience to have someone profess, “I love you” in front of everyone?

(Just imagining it brings tears to my eyes.)

While a public proposal isn’t a must, I believe it’s worth reciprocating "I love you" during some moment of the wedding, as it’s a unique opportunity.

@wd03su

Reflecting on the Extraordinary Nature of Weddings Makes Me Emotional

Weddings are not only about "becoming a princess" but also a series of extraordinary performances that may never be repeated in our lives.

Personally, I was particularly moved by the experience of "linking arms with Dad."

I reaffirmed that weddings are truly wonderful.

Nowadays, about half of married couples don’t have wedding ceremonies. I was among those who thought it was fine for people to do as they please...

However, reflecting on the beautiful moments I've shared, I feel that weddings are an event everyone should experience in their lifetime.

So, if I hear a friend say, "I'm wondering what to do about my wedding...", I would definitely say, "I really believe you should have one in some form!" ❤️

@nmch_wd