Unique Touches of a Family Wedding: Requesting Guests to Write Messages During the Intermission ♩

Performances You Want to Do During the Family Wedding Intermission＊

The intermission time during a family or small wedding.

Many people might think they want to keep things simple during the intermission, allowing guests to enjoy their meals, chat freely with each other, and have a relaxed time without any structured activities.

However, there are some performances that allow guests to participate easily without taking too much time, and I would like to introduce one of them!＊

Prepare paper and boards (colored paper or notebooks are fine), and have a theme where guests can write messages in that space. ♩

The bride in this case had:

- Parents write a user manual for the bride and groom

- Relatives share secrets for a successful married life

and encouraged everyone to write freely as individuals. ♡

Perhaps this is a message from the mother... it's wonderful! ♡

At larger weddings, it might be a bit difficult to distribute papers to everyone and have them write during the intermission time,

but for a family wedding, it’s great to receive quick, heartfelt messages from family members who know the bride and groom well, all in a short amount of time! ♡

Other themes might work well too! ♩

For example♡

<For Parents>

- From your experiences, what are the essentials for building a happy family?

- What is the one story you want to share about the groom (bride)?

- What did you feel when the groom (bride) was born?

- What would you like to tell the groom (bride)?

<For Siblings>

- What are your memories with the groom (bride)?

- Has your impression changed from when you were little to now as adults?

<For Relatives>

- What was your impression of the groom (bride) in the past?

- What is the most important thing in married life?

- What should we do if there’s a fight?

Please give it a try! ♡

Having guests write messages is a performance unique to family or small weddings that only takes about 20-30 seconds per person, ensuring it doesn’t burden the guests or take up too much time.

After the wedding, you will look forward to reading what everyone wrote! ♡

Be sure to incorporate this into one of the performances during the intermission.