Are you all set? A list of guest roles for whom you should consider giving thank-you gifts at your wedding and the typical price range*
2022.10.19 published
There is a Culture of Gratitude at Weddings!
On the day of the wedding, it is customary to ask specific guests in advance to handle tasks such as registration, entertainment, and speeches.
It is truly a blessing to have guests who are willing to take time out of their schedules to help us prepare for our wedding.
Since they have taken on these responsibilities, it is a matter of etiquette and an important gesture of kindness for the bride and groom to prepare a token of appreciation.
In this article, I have summarized the roles of guests at the wedding for whom it is advisable (necessary) to give a thank-you gift.
Of course, it is not obligatory to give gifts to everyone, so
please check if it applies in your case.
List of Gifts and Typical Budgets
✅ Thank-You Gift for the Registration Desk
【Budget 3,000–5,000 yen】
✅ Thank-You Gift for Entertainment
【Budget 3,000–5,000 yen】
✅ Thank-You Gift for the Representative Speech by a Friend
【Budget 3,000–5,000 yen】
✅ Thank-You Gift for Bridesmaids/ushers
If you had them coordinate matching dresses or enter together during the ceremony.
【Budget 3,000–5,000 yen】
✅ Thank-You Gift for Guided Participation at the Registration Desk
If someone guides guests for a participatory event (such as signing the marriage certificate).
【Budget 3,000–5,000 yen】
✅ Thank-You Gift for Handmade Items
If someone prepared items like bouquets, welcome boards, or profile movies.
【Varies by item, but budget 3,000–20,000 yen】
✅ Thank-You Gift for Photography
If you requested someone to take photos/videos with a DSLR.
【Budget 10,000–30,000 yen】
✅ Thank-You Gift for Kid Guests
If they participated in the ceremony as a ring bearer, etc.
【Budget 3,000 yen】
✅ Thank-You Gift for Reading Vows in a Civil Ceremony
【Budget 3,000–5,000 yen】
✅ Thank-You Gift for the Master of Ceremonies
【Budget 10,000–30,000 yen】
✅ Thank-You Gift for the Second Party Organizers
【Budget 5,000–10,000 yen】
If there are other guests who helped out or took on special roles, be sure to prepare gifts to convey your gratitude.
Now, here are some classic gifts to consider for thank-yous♡
For Women
🎁 Aveda Paddle Brush
🎁 John Masters Organics Combo Paddle Brush
🎁 BAUM Skincare or Hand Soap
🎁 to/one Booster Serum
🎁 Aesop Hand Cream
🎁 ReFa Heart Brush
🎁 Laura Mercier Engraved Lipstick
🎁 Officine Universelle Buly Hair Comb or Lip Balm
🎁 Track Oil
🎁 Klaus Porto Soap
🎁 Hermès Lipstick
And more♡
For Men
🎁 Bulk Homme Skincare Items
🎁 WAR PAINT Men's Cosmetics
🎁 MARVIS Toothpaste and Toothbrush
🎁 Experience Gifts
🎁 Barneys New York Shoe Care Set
🎁 Amazon Gift Card
And more♡
For Kids
Depending on their age and interests at the time, it's a good idea to ask their parents first!
🎁 Mini Cars like Tomica
🎁 Figurines
🎁 Sticker Books
🎁 Picture Books
🎁 Coloring Books & Colored Pencils
🎁 Sakura Cray-Pas Edible Cookies
🎁 Drawing Boards
🎁 Book Gift Cards
And more♡
Prepare Gifts That Will Make Everyone Happy*
This is different from tips for planners and hair and makeup artists, or travel expenses for guests who have come from afar; these are thank-you gifts for guests.
As I browse Instagram, I often see posts like "I chose this because I was interested♡" or "I bought one for myself too!" which gives the impression that everyone enjoys choosing these gifts.
Please be sure to prepare a wonderful present!♡
👇 You can find a list of articles introducing various stylish gifts on marry♡
Introducing various fashionable gifts ♡