"Renewing Our Vows: Celebrating X Years of Marriage and Recommitting to Eternal Love as a Family"
2016.07.04 published
Do You Know About "Vow Renewal"?
"Vow Renewal," as the name suggests, means to "renew (改める) the vow (vow=誓い)." It's a ceremony for redoing the eternal love vow made at the wedding, like a second wedding ceremony!♡
Vow renewals are often held to commemorate anniversaries such as the 5th, 10th, or 20th year of marriage* Many people have children by then, so the characteristic feature is that the whole family can participate in this second wedding ceremony♡ Rather than just confirming love between the couple, it's a very touching ceremony where parents can show their son or daughter the depth of their love♡
[How to Hold a Vow Renewal] How Should It be Done??
So, how exactly should a vow renewal be conducted?? Of course, the format is flexible, but overseas, it's common to ask a pastor to officiate, inviting close family, friendly neighbors, or close friends for a very small gathering*
You can wear the wedding dress or tuxedo from the first wedding, but wearing a simpler and more natural dress or shirt is lovely too♡ That casual couple vibe is something to aspire to*
In overseas locations, it's typically held in a suburban park or chapel, but in Japan, it seems popular to arrange a family trip to Hawaii or a resort for the vow renewal♡ Asking a friend to play the role of pastor and exchanging family vows is a memorable experience too*
There are many unique touches that are special to a second wedding "vow renewal"* Arrangements filled with family love allow you to imagine the happy daily life of the couple and children, making you emotional just watching it♡
For example! The sign bearer who tells everyone "The bride is coming!" At a first wedding, it's usually "here comes the bride," but for the second time, it’s "hey Daddy, here comes the bride! (Daddy! Your bride is coming soon ♡)" — overflowing with family sentiment*
"Here comes my mommy (Our bride, mom is coming soon ♡)" is also wonderful. The sign bearer at the vow renewal is often done by their son or daughter. Can you imagine such a loving arrangement in any other way??
When the whole family takes pictures together, adding a unique touch to the photo props like garlands is charming♡ Instead of "Just married," it reads "Just married again (We had a wedding again*)," showing the family's closeness♡
The classic "I do" can be changed to "We still Do (We promise eternal love forever ♡)" and it's just lovely♡ We want to become this kind of couple too*
With my beloved husband and cherished children. How wonderful would it be to have a second wedding with the whole family years after finishing the preparation for your first wedding?
A vow renewal is a very special ceremony* Throughout the time you're living as a family, having a wedding not just once but two, three, or even four times! Let’s hold a wedding as many times as we want with our beloved husband and children♡