"Want a Wedding Without Regrets? Here Are 5 Common Concerns Every Bride-to-Be Faces and Their Solutions!"

2016.01.07 published

5 Common Concerns for Bride-to-Be that We Can Solve ♡

When you first become a bride-to-be, it's exciting and joyful, right?♩ However, since it's your first time, once you start preparations, there are many anxieties that come up＊ There are so many things to prepare for the wedding, and as you encounter issues, it can lead to feelings of marriage blues.

@nagisa_marry

Here, we will extract and solve 5 common concerns that many brides-to-be have ♡

Concern 1: I don’t know where to start!

When someone important proposes and you start thinking about "marriage," the first thing that comes to mind for many brides-to-be is the "wedding dress" to wear on the wedding day＊

@izuho0414_wedding

But there are many things to consider when planning a wedding, such as choosing a venue and gifts＊ First, as a couple, think about what kind of wedding you want while selecting a venue♩ You should be able to get a breakdown of the costs associated with each venue＊

Once you have a rough budget based on the breakdown, it's good to decide how much money to allocate for different categories♡ If you get too particular about everything, you might end up going over budget, so it's important to discuss your priorities♩

Concern 2: What’s Important When Choosing a Dress?

Choosing a "dress" is often the part of wedding preparations that brides-to-be spend the most time on＊ But if you take your time, you might end up missing out on dresses that get booked by someone else!

@non.ayam

When you visit a dress shop, it’s crucial to keep in mind your "body shape and areas you'd like to cover," the "atmosphere of the venue," "budget," and the "theme of the wedding"♡ Since all dresses are cute, casually trying them on would be a waste! You can usually only try on about 4 dresses at a time, so make sure to choose carefully♩

@tabaimi0313

Another important point is the people you take with you to see the dresses＊ If you're looking forward to the first look, you might take friends or family with you♩ However, hearing opinions from many different people can be confusing, so try to take the same person when you go♡

@sy1110.wedding

Concern 3: When should I tell others about my marriage?

Many people share their joy on social media by posting about their proposal or pre-wedding photos＊ However, along with the congratulations from many people, there can also be some tricky situations.

@yt20150316

One common issue is receiving comments like "Don't forget to invite me to the wedding!" from people you didn't intend to invite… You might have already adjusted your guest list based on your budget, and this can create a bit of a headache! It's better to be cautious and announce on social media after the wedding＊

Don't forget to inform your boss first! After that, it's best to let your close friends, who you plan to invite, know about 4-5 months in advance＊ Sending out invitations about 3 months prior is ideal♡

@y_k_k_0314

Concern 4: I'm surprisingly struggling with table flowers!!

You might think that since the theme is decided, choosing the table flowers should be easy! But it can be surprisingly challenging, like thinking "I want pink flowers, but there are too many options!"

In such cases, it might help to consider the "height of the venue’s ceiling" and the "arrangement of the tables"♡ If you have tall flowers on a centrally located table, guests might not be able to see the screen, so choosing shorter flowers will help narrow down your options♩

Incorporating seasonal flowers can enhance the visual appeal and create a lovely atmosphere that delights your guests♡

@keiko_marry

Concern 5: What should I write in the letter to my parents?

The scene in the reception where the bride reads a letter to her parents is incredibly moving♡ However, you might struggle to gather your thoughts because there's so much you want to say＊

@yuih_wd

Good themes to include are "gratitude towards your parents," "memorable memories," and "what kind of couple you aspire to be moving forward"♡ And don't forget to conclude with another expression of thanks to your parents and the guests♩

@lva__wd

By focusing on these points, your heartfelt appreciation will surely come across♡ Guests will think of you as a "wonderful bride♡" and leave with a good impression＊*

@asu_0423

To Hold a Wonderful Wedding Without Regrets…

Brides-to-be face plenty of worries, but I hope this article helps you resolve those concerns and have a beautiful wedding…♡

@k2.1m