Is It Better to Have a Wedding on a "Dai-an" Day? Understanding the Significance of "Roku-yō" in Choosing the Date

2016.01.08 published

"It's often said that it's best to have a wedding on a lucky day!" ♡

When deciding on a wedding venue, many brides-to-be are concerned about whether there is availability on "Taira" days, right? *It seems that the awareness of 【Taira】 = "the best day for a wedding" has been ingrained in our minds since long ago!*

@nagisa_marry

Let's thoroughly understand the meaning of 'Rokuyo' (Six Days) ♡

The well-known terms 【Taira】 and 【Butsumetsu】 are actually part of a type of calendar called 'Rokuyo'. *Let's solidify our understanding of the meaning of 'Rokuyo' and its relationship with marriage!*

Nowadays, younger people often don't pay much attention to omens or superstitions, but among parents and relatives, there may be some who do care about 'Rokuyo'. It's recommended to keep 'Rokuyo' in mind when deciding on the wedding date! ♡

So, what exactly is 'Rokuyo'?

'Rokuyo' (別名・Rokkai) is based on a fortune-telling tradition that originated from China, representing six types of daily fortunes.* It has been tied to ceremonies and important occasions since the Meiji period.*

The 'Rokuyo' consists of 6 types: Senkatsu, Tomobiki, Senbu, Butsumetsu, Taira, and Shakkō, and they are often used as standards for good and bad days for weddings.* Some venues even offer discounts or benefits based on 'Rokuyo'! ♡

@ds_wedding2021

Now, let's introduce each of the six types of 'Rokuyo' and their recommended levels for weddings! ♡

【Senkatsu (先勝)】 Recommended Level ★★★☆☆

With the meaning "Those who act first win," 【Senkatsu】 is a day that favors completing tasks quickly! ♡ It is the third most popular day for weddings. ♩

It is auspicious to hold the ceremony in the morning, as the afternoon is considered inauspicious, so morning or just before noon ceremonies are best. ♩

【Tomobiki (友引)】 Recommended Level ★★★★☆

With the meaning "It brings friends," 【Tomobiki】 is also interpreted as "sharing happiness," making it a favorable day for weddings! ♡ It is the second most popular day for weddings. ♩

However, it is said that "ill fortune may befall friends" precisely at noon. Thus, ceremonies are best held in the morning, evening, or at night. *Due to its popularity, it's advisable to make reservations for 【Tomobiki】 early! ♩*

【Senbu (先負)】 Recommended Level ★★★☆☆

Meaning "Those who act first lose," 【Senbu】 suggests that it is good to remain calm and not rush on this day! ♡

The morning is considered inauspicious, while the afternoon is auspicious, so why not enjoy an evening or night wedding? ♡ You might create a wonderful ceremony with a candlelight night wedding, uniquely suited to the evening! ♩

【Butsumetsu (仏滅)】 Recommended Level ★★☆☆☆

With the meaning "A day so unlucky that even the Buddha would perish," 【Butsumetsu】 is a day to avoid for those who care about 'Rokuyo' when planning a wedding. *

It is indeed the least popular day for venue reservations, but some venues may offer discounts or additional benefits on this day. ♡ If neither the bride, groom, nor relatives care, it might be a hidden opportunity for a more affordable wedding!

【Taira (大安)】 Recommended Level ★★★★★

Meaning "very peaceful," 【Taira】 is considered a good day for any activity throughout the day! ♡ It is, of course, the most popular day for weddings! ♩

On 【Taira】 days, any time is auspicious, making it the best choice for holding a wedding! ♡ It's also the first day to be booked at any venue, so if you prefer "a lucky Taira day," it's best to make your reservations quickly! *

【Shakkō (赤口)】 Recommended Level ★★☆☆☆

Considered a day aimed at causing trouble by the demon god known as Red Mouth, 【Shakkō】 is usually deemed unsuitable for celebrations. *

The only auspicious time is during "the hour of the horse" (11 AM to 1 PM), so if you plan to have a wedding, aim for a ceremony during that time! ♡ Like 【Butsumetsu】, there may be venues offering discounts or benefits on this day as well! ♩

Understand the meaning of 'Rokuyo' and decide on a date! ♡

What did you think? ♡ For those who care about 'Rokuyo,' of course, 【Taira】 and 【Tomobiki】 are recommended, but if you don't mind, the lesser-cost option of 【Butsumetsu】 or 【Shakkō】 might also be good choices! ♩

Regardless of whether or not you care, understanding historical knowledge like 'Rokuyo' and being informed is vital for making decisions! ♡ Make sure to understand the meaning clearly and choose your wedding date thoughtfully! ♩

@haruno45