Pre-Wedding Preparation: A Comprehensive Guide to the Elegant and Proper Behavior of the Bride and Groom from Ceremony to Reception ♡

2016.02.09 published

I Want to Know How to Behave on My Wedding Day! ♡

Before the wedding day, the dress shop teaches you how to walk, and the wedding venue informs you about the flow of the ceremony and when to bow. However, that's usually just one practice session!

There must be brides wondering what they should pay attention to. I'll introduce general etiquette and points to keep in mind, so please imagine what the day of the ceremony will be like! ♡

Important Point to Remember on the Wedding Day #1: "How to Enter the Chapel"

In the most traditional Christian ceremony, first the groom enters after bowing. Then, the bride and her parents enter. Don't forget to bow at this time either! *

After the bow, the bride and her mother take a step forward for the "veil down" ceremony. It's an emotional scene that even brings tears to the guests... At this point, the bride should bend slightly. Make sure to hold the bouquet with both hands! ♡

Important Point to Remember on the Wedding Day #2: "How to Walk in Your Dress"

Brides who choose a princess line or A-line dress should walk by slightly kicking the hem of their dress. It's correct to walk while kicking a little with your heels rather than tentatively stepping to avoid stepping on the dress! ♩

@saya.pre

For brides choosing a mermaid line or empire dress ♡ If the dress has a straight line, please lift the hem a little with the hand holding the bouquet as you walk. It’s also cute to let your favorite bridal shoes peek out! ♩

Important Point to Remember on the Wedding Day #3: "How to Walk After the Ceremony"

Leaving the ceremony, guests will cheerfully applaud, bringing smiles to everyone's faces. What to be aware of here is to walk one step behind the groom. The sight of the bride walking slightly behind the groom, who leads the way, is lovely! ♡

The basic way for the bride and groom to walk side by side is for the bride to link arms with the groom. Instead of wrapping her arm around the bent arm of the groom, she should gently place her hand on it. ♩ With the other hand, she holds the bouquet! ♡

Important Point to Remember on the Wedding Day #4: "How to Enter the Reception Hall"

There's no strict rule for entering the reception hall, but many couples enter together, right? * At that time, when the door opens, the couple takes a step forward together. Afterwards, they bow and head towards the head table. *

@0916hspan

Of course, at this moment, the bride and groom also link arms! ♡ You might want to think of it as "they should always link arms when standing side by side during the wedding ceremony!" ♩

Important Point to Remember on the Wedding Day #5: "How to Walk to the Head Table"

Upon entering the reception hall, the bride and groom head towards the head table. * While walking towards the head table, they pass between the guest tables. Therefore, instead of walking side by side, it looks beautiful for the groom to lead the bride. *

@tonko_wedding_miavia

Even when entering from the stairs like this, the groom leads the way! ♡ When being led, the couple doesn't link arms. The bride should place her fingertips on the groom's offered palm. * It's just like a princess being escorted by a prince! ♡

@nishi_wd

Important Point to Remember on the Wedding Day #6: "How to Cut the Cake"

As the reception begins, before you know it, it’s time for the cake cutting! * Since this is the first joint task, of course, both of you should hold the knife together! ♡ However, there are also points to pay attention to in the way you hold it.

@7.7cyorin2.17wd

First, both of you hold the knife with your right hand. The bride places her left hand over both of your right hands and the knife, wrapping them together. * The groom's left hand should rest on the bride's waist! ♡ This is the basic way to cut the cake. *

Important Point to Remember on the Wedding Day #7: "Ending the Reception"

The finale of the reception includes the bride’s letter, the presentation of gifts to the parents, and the speech of thanks. After presenting the gifts, both families stand in a line before the exit door * with the bride and groom in the center and their parents on either side.

At this time, the bride and groom should also stand with their arms linked! ♩ When exiting, they need to turn around to face backward. It’s important to ensure that when they turn, each person turns inward. Be careful not to turn away from each other! ♡

@nagisa_marry

I Want to Be Mindful of My Behavior on the Wedding Day! ♡

The main characters on the wedding day are the bride and groom! ♡ Since everyone will be watching, you want to be mindful of your behavior too. * Please review a little before the wedding and enjoy the day to the fullest! ♩

May it be an incredibly wonderful day for the both of you... ♡