"The Importance of the Date for Your Wedding! 4 Key Points to Consider When Choosing Your Wedding Day*"

To the brides-to-be who have just started preparing for their wedding... what you want to decide first is the wedding date ◎

For those recently proposed to, the exciting and thrilling preparations for the wedding are just beginning ♡ With dreams expanding about dresses, bouquets, and venue decorations... why not start by deciding the wedding date? ♡

The wedding date should not only fit the couple's schedules＊

While it is essential to choose a date that perfectly aligns with the couple's schedules, there are additional points to consider ◎ The purpose of the wedding ceremony and reception is to showcase the couple's new beginning and express gratitude to parents and guests who have supported them＊ Let’s think about a wedding date that considers everyone’s feelings ♩

Here are four points to keep in mind when deciding on the wedding date♡

Points to consider when deciding on the wedding date ①: Think about the 'Rokuyo' ♩

'Rokuyo' is a traditional Japanese calendar based on six days: Senkatsu (beneficial for starting events) → Tomobiki (good for weddings) → Senbu (not good for starting anything) → Butsumetsu (bad day) → Taian (very auspicious) → Shukko (neutral). Originating from China, it is used in fortune-telling to express the day’s fortune and is associated with ceremonial events ♩

The most auspicious day for weddings, known as 'Taian', signifies "great peace" ♡ Dates that fall on 'Taian' are very popular, making it easy to fill up venue reservations＊ If you want to choose a 'Taian' date, it's best to make your reservation as early as possible ♩

The next best option is 'Tomobiki' ♡ Conversely, it is best to avoid 'Butsumetsu', as the older generation still adheres to the customs of Rokuyo, so if you absolutely want to choose 'Butsumetsu', check the wishes of both families＊

Points to consider when deciding on the wedding date ②: It's better to avoid extremely cold or hot periods ◎

Since weddings typically invite many guests, it's advisable to choose a pleasant season with moderate weather, avoiding extremely hot or cold times ◎ Depending on the region, you may encounter typhoons or heavy snowfall, so check the typical weather for the area in which you intend to hold the ceremony during your desired timeframe ♩

www.knotsvilla.com

If you want a wedding themed around seasonal events like Halloween or Valentine's Day, you'll of course want to hold the wedding close to those dates ♡ The perfect season may change depending on the image you have for your ceremony, so discuss this with your partner ♡

By the way, getting married in June is referred to as 'June Bride', and there is a saying that if you marry in June, you will have a happy marriage for a lifetime ♡ This romantic saying from Europe can be a great reference for your plans ♩

Points to consider when deciding on the wedding date ③: Try to avoid 'New Year's' and 'Large Public Holidays' ◎

New Year's Eve and New Year's Day are quite busy times, as are large public holidays like Golden Week, so it’s best to avoid dates when guests may have already made plans ◎ If there’s an essential reason for choosing these dates, be sure to inform your guests as early as possible＊

During holidays like Obon, many guests likely want to spend time with their families, so it's better to avoid those periods ◎ Generally, it’s considerate to avoid times when transportation is hard to book ♩

youngfolksociety.tumblr.com

Points to consider when deciding on the wedding date ④: Consider 'guests’ accommodation needs' ♩

If you have many guests coming from far away, it’s polite to consider their accommodation needs ♩ It would be ideal to choose a Saturday or Sunday afternoon, enabling distant guests to attend comfortably ♡

However, it’s also true that many venues offer special discount plans for weekdays＊ If you decide to hold it on a weekday, make sure to inform guests promptly due to their work schedules and accommodation considerations ♩

Bonus point for deciding on the wedding date: When are 'popular dates'?

Taking all this into account, it's natural to want to know when popular dates are for couples ♩ The most popular dates are during the spring and autumn seasons when the weather is pleasant, particularly on Saturdays, Sundays, or holidays that coincide with 'Taian' or 'Tomobiki' ♡ Popular venues may be fully booked a year in advance for these dates, so making an early reservation to secure your desired date is very important ◎

Dates that have good numerology are also highly sought after ♡ A famous date is November 22, known as 'Good Couple Day', and every 22nd of the month is also celebrated as 'Couple Day', making it very popular ♡

I want to have the perfect wedding on the ideal date ♡

By keeping in mind these four important points when deciding on the date, both the couple and the guests, including parents, will be able to enjoy a wonderful wedding♡ Please discuss with your partner and decide on the ideal date ♡