I Can’t Wait Any Longer! What Should I Do? *A Summary of Things You Should Do to Get Proposed to by Him ♡
2016.03.27 published
A Proposal is Every Girl's Dream ♡ But What Should You Do If Your Boyfriend Isn't Proposing?
"Being proposed to by the guy you love" is such a dreamy moment for girls, isn’t it? ♡ But even as others around you start getting married, or even if you’ve been together for a long time, he still hasn’t proposed...! It’s natural to feel anxious about that.
What Actions Should Women Take to Receive a Proposal?
"Men have a mental age that is, on average, 3 to 5 years younger than women," and "men start to feel an urgency to marry after the age of 35" are common discussions. For women dating men who are not interested in marriage, waiting alone can lead to years passing before a proposal...! This time, we’ll introduce recommended actions for women who wish to say, "I want to get married ♡" or "I want to be proposed to ♡"*
What to Do to Get Proposed To – For the Busy Boyfriend
You might have a boyfriend who is very focused on his work. There are indeed many men who can’t think about anything else because they are so busy. In such cases, being straightforward might burden him, so it's better to focus on self-improvement.*
If You Have a Busy Boyfriend, Focus on [Self-Improvement]!
If you have a busy boyfriend, it’s time for self-improvement. Rather than just focusing on appearance, it’s recommended to acquire "skills that will be useful in married life." For example, improve your cooking skills! ♩
What to Do to Get Proposed To – For the Boyfriend Who Shows No Signs
You have a good relationship but your vibe feels more like just dating without any intention of marriage. It can be lonely when he shows no signs of proposing. For those with such a boyfriend, it's time to subtly introduce the word [marriage].*
If Your Boyfriend Shows No Signs, Casually Bring Up the Word [Marriage]!
If he shows no signs of proposing, it’s possible that the word [marriage] doesn’t even cross his mind. He might feel comfortable with the current state of your relationship.*
In that case, try casually showing him wedding magazines or passing by a bridal shop during dates. This might make the word [marriage] pop into his mind! ♡
What to Do to Get Proposed To – For the Indecisive Boyfriend
It seems like he is considering marriage, but some men can be quite indecisive. While he hesitates, the woman can’t wait indefinitely...! If you have an indecisive boyfriend, try discussing your [life plan].*
Let him know where you envision your life in one year, three years, or five years, and whether you want children. Convey your clear intentions! It’s best to communicate this within casual conversations.*
There are also other actions you can take to help secure a proposal! For example, meeting each other's parents while you are still dating is a good idea. ♡ This clarifies that your relationship is not just a casual fling.*
Additionally, reflecting on your spending habits is crucial. If you have extravagant spending habits, he might think, “She won’t manage finances well after marriage.” Take a moment to reflect on how you handle your finances! ♩