"Making a Cute First Impression: Tips and Manners for Choosing the Perfect Outfit for Your 'Face-to-Face' Meeting"

What to Wear for the "Meet the Parents" Ceremony?

One of the first things to do after becoming engaged is the "meet the parents" ceremony.

This gathering is the first official dinner where both families come together. While some may already have a good relationship with their partner's parents from dating, the "meet the parents" ceremony is an official greeting to say, "I'm marrying their child," marking the first formal ritual as a family.

You want to approach this occasion looking graceful and beautiful.

The bride's impression during this meeting is very important for both families to build a wonderful relationship. So, let's start by explaining the basic etiquette for outfits during the meeting.

Basic Attire Etiquette for the Meeting

There are two important points to consider when deciding on your outfit for the meeting! The first is to match the atmosphere of the venue.

The meeting can be held at the woman's home, a traditional Japanese inn, restaurant, or hotel. Choose formal attire that blends with the setting, such as a kimono (furisode), a suit, or a dress. ♩

The second basic etiquette is to maintain balance among all participants.

For example, if the bride's mother wears a kimono and the groom's mother wears a dress, it could create an awkward situation or later lead to comments like, "Why didn't you let me know...!" So, it is necessary to consult beforehand.

Now, let's introduce some points about [meeting outfit ideas] for brides.

[Meeting Fashion♡] ➡ Clothing

The main character of the meeting is, after all, the bride. If the meeting takes place at a home, hotel, or restaurant, wear a dress with a sheen and minimal skin exposure. A knee-length semi-formal skirt is recommended.

Be careful not to look too childish.

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If the meeting is held at a traditional inn or a Japanese-style venue, wearing a kimono would be lovely. Opt for a simple, easy-to-move furisode instead of a colorful uchikake. Wearing a color of kimono you don’t plan to wear for your wedding could also be fun.

[Meeting Fashion♡] ➡ Hairstyle

If you're wearing a dress or western-style outfit, consider a simple bun or an elegant half-up hairstyle.

For the base of your hairstyle, avoid overly fluffy curls; a soft wave or a single curl at the ends is just right. ♩

If wearing a furisode, how about trying a trendy, glossy hairstyle?

Add a flower decoration in the same color as the kimono.

[Meeting Fashion♡] ➡ Accessories

Keep accessories very simple. A short pearl necklace would certainly add a sparkle around your neck and make a great impression on everyone.

You might consider borrowing your mother or grandmother's jewelry as something old. ♩

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The Meeting is a Chance to Show Off the Adorable Bride

The key to the outfit during the meeting is to follow etiquette while wearing your favorite clothing, hairstyle, and accessories, making it an enjoyable point above all.

Wishing you a wonderful "meet the parents" ceremony.