"Let's Teach Him! Key Points for Delivering a Smart and Heartfelt Wedding Speech from the Groom ♡"

First Time Groom's Speech!

At my first wedding, as a first-time "groom," I will give a greeting and thanks to all the guests. Just the thought of speaking in front of company superiors, friends, and family makes me nervous!

What is a Groom's Speech?

The groom's speech, also known as the groom's gratitude speech, is the closing remarks given at the end of the wedding reception.

Traditionally, the gratitude speech is given by the sender of the wedding invitation, so if the sender is the parents, the groom's father will give the speech. However, recently, it has become more common for the groom himself to deliver the speech without being bound by tradition.

A groom's speech can be very nerve-wracking as it is in front of a large number of guests, but if you focus on the key points, it will be fine! Here are some key points for a great groom's speech that you can share with him!

【Groom's Speech】 Point 1: Prepare Cue Cards

Groom's speeches can make you very nervous. But it's okay to prepare cue cards during your speech! If you're anxious, hold a beautifully handwritten letter and read it aloud.

【Groom's Speech】 Point 2: Keep it Around 5 Minutes

The groom's speech should generally be about 5 minutes long. Think about making your speech an appropriate length, neither too long nor too short.

【Groom's Speech】 Point 3: Thank the Attendees

Start your speech by thanking the guests who came to your wedding.

【Example】 "Thank you all very much for taking the time to attend our wedding party today." A simple expression is perfectly fine!

【Groom's Speech】 Point 4: Thanking the Mediator and Speakers

After thanking all the guests, include thanks to the mediator and those who gave speeches, especially those who have been particularly helpful.

【Example】 "The reason we could reach this day safely is thanks to the efforts of Mr. and Mrs. ○○, our mediator."

【Example】 "I am overwhelmed with gratitude for all the kind words and encouragement from everyone."

【Groom's Speech】 Point 5: Include a Story from the Past

Include stories about the two of you from the past or memories with the guests.

【Example】 "We met ○ years ago and created lots of memories together, deciding to walk through life together."

【Example】 "My boss and colleagues taught me the challenges and joys of working life, and my relatives have warmly watched over us since childhood."

【Groom's Speech】 Point 6: Express Current Gratitude

Honestly communicate that you are standing here today because of the support of your bosses, colleagues, friends, relatives, and family.

【Example】 "I am filled with gratitude for all the kind words and encouragement from everyone."

【Groom's Speech】 Point 7: Talk About the Future

It would be lovely to include your goals for building a family and a message of "I hope for your continued support."

【Example】 "I will strive to build a family like ○○. There may be many shortcomings, and we might trouble you in the future, but I hope you will continue to warm-heartedly watch over us and guide us sternly when needed."

【Groom's Speech】 Point 8: Words of Thanks to Parents

Seize this opportunity to tell your parents, who have lovingly raised you, a heartfelt "thank you" that you might often shy away from expressing.

【Example】 "I would like to take this opportunity to sincerely thank my father and mother for bringing me into this world and raising me, (including a past story). Thank you very much."

【Groom's Speech】 Point 9: Closing Words

Finally, end with a cool closing remark for the wedding reception. Including a wish for the happiness of the guests is also a nice touch.

【Example】 "Finally, I would like to express my thanks and pray for the happiness and prosperity of everyone gathered here today. Thank you very much for attending!"

With this, the 【Groom's Speech】 is Perfect!

Although groom's speeches can be very nerve-wracking, if you prepare in advance, there's nothing to fear! Please finish the wedding on a cool note! Let's do our best!