“I can’t wait to see you as a bride,” or “I can’t pass away until I see you as a bride,” were things my grandfather or grandmother said. Or perhaps, my parents who passed away without having the chance to show me in my wedding attire despite always being a burden to them. Wouldn’t it be nice to express gratitude to them and your close friends during your wedding ceremony?
Your dearly departed loved ones are surely watching over your beautiful bridal look from heaven. Here are some wedding ideas that allow you to express your feelings of gratitude toward those important to you.
【To That Person in Heaven】 Wedding Idea to Express Gratitude ① Secure a Seat
It’s possible that your loved one who has passed away may be present at your wedding. Why not reserve a seat for that special person? Since a wedding is a joyous occasion, let’s create a bright atmosphere with names and flowers!
Decorating with photographs is another wonderful idea. Choose a photo where they are smiling brightly and add a ribbon! In the movie “Armageddon,” the heroine displayed pictures of her deceased father and friends at her wedding.
It’s not uncommon to secure a seat for the reception as well! Some even serve meals. Let’s decorate with small photographs or flowers, allowing them to enjoy the wedding too!
【To That Person in Heaven】 Wedding Idea to Express Gratitude ② Wear Their Photo
This is a wedding idea where a small photo is attached to the bouquet. For those who wished to walk down the aisle with their father, carrying this bouquet will surely mean he is walking with you in spirit...
Of course, the groom can also wear a photo! There is an idea to adorn the boutonnière with a picture of a loved one, making it seem like you can walk confidently saying, “I’ll build a wonderful family from now on!”
There’s also a way to sew clothing that belonged to the deceased into the wedding dress. It’s as if they are watching over the ceremony closely, ensuring everything goes perfectly… Such a beautiful way to carry "something blue."
【To That Person in Heaven】 Wedding Idea to Express Gratitude ③ Light a Candle
This wedding idea incorporates lighting candles as a form of remembrance. Not only lighting a candle but also attaching a message card to convey your feelings toward your loved one makes it even more special.
Look at this wonderful smile from Grandma! She’s alongside a family tree made from photos and a picture of her that has passed. The warm light of the candle beside it feels like her gentle gaze…
【To That Person in Heaven】 Wedding Idea to Express Gratitude ④ Add a Message
To the beloved person... since it’s a special wedding occasion, adding a message can be wonderful. How about leaving words that are usually kept in your heart, such as “I’m always with you” and “I love you” as a message at the wedding?
【To That Person in Heaven】 Wedding Idea to Express Gratitude ⑤ Take Photos
Make sure to take photos with the loved ones who were most looking forward to seeing you in your wedding dress! Looking at these pictures, it seems your mother is really happy.
With the feelings of “I’m so happy!” in mind, I definitely want to keep smiling photos. Being happy is, I believe, the best thing for those who have passed away.
【To That Person in Heaven】 Wedding Idea to Express Gratitude ⑥ Write a Letter
If you want to convey your gratitude directly, writing a letter is the best way. You can read it at the end of the reception or gently place it in front of a photo of your loved one.
There are many ways to express gratitude to the dearly departed. Please share your overflowing feelings during the wedding, such as “Thank you for everything so far,” “I’m happy,” “Continue to watch over me,” and “I love you.” They are surely watching over you kindly from heaven…