"Things to Keep in Mind When Visiting Your Boyfriend or Husband's Family During Golden Week"

2016.04.30 published

Let's go greet his family during GW ♡

Golden Week is just around the corner＊ Many people may be returning home during this long holiday♡ While returning to your own family is nice, why not take the opportunity to visit your boyfriend's family as well? ♡

Things to be cautious about when greeting his family ♡

Let's go greet your boyfriend or husband's family during GW! When visiting, it's better to prepare a small gift＊ Just ensure it’s not too much of a burden for them♡

In addition to bringing a gift, there are other things to keep in mind＊ To help shorten the distance with his parents as quickly as possible, here are some tips to consider ♩

Things to be cautious about when greeting his family《During Dating》①

First of all, is it necessary to greet them while dating? The answer is "yes," it is necessary＊ If you are dating with the premise of marriage, you should greet them during your dating period too♡ It's wonderful to have a friendly relationship with his parents even before marriage♩ Moreover, if you suddenly come to greet them and announce "We are getting married!" it might surprise them! So, let’s greet his parents while you are still dating♩

Things to be cautious about when greeting his family《During Dating》②

When you meet your boyfriend’s parents for the first time, be especially careful about your behavior♩ Manners are particularly important when greeting at his home or when dining out＊ Pay attention to how you eat and how you take off your shoes at the entrance. Make sure to act politely♡ The first impression you make is truly important＊ It's best to pay attention to etiquette in your daily life as well♡

Things to be cautious about when greeting his family《During Engagement》①

Regarding greetings to his parents after getting engaged＊ Unlike during dating, topics like “the wedding” come up easily in conversations＊ Discuss your wedding plans, what kind of ceremony you plan to have, etc. It's better to be well-prepared rather than saying nothing is decided. Making concrete discussions about marriage with your boyfriend is preferable and leaves a good impression♡

Things to be cautious about when greeting his family《During Engagement》②

By the time you are engaged, you should have already begun to feel more comfortable with his parents＊ After GW, send a thank-you note via phone, letter, or email to express your gratitude♡ It's not just about meeting; maintaining contact afterwards is lovely! Just like you would thank friends after hanging out, do the same with his parents＊

Things to be cautious about when greeting his family《After Marriage》①

After getting married, if you're returning to his family’s home as a couple♡ First, share updates about your recent married life♩ Especially for those living far from their family, GW is an opportunity for family bonding♡ Share your recent updates with his parents just as you would with your own parents♩ They will surely be happy to hear it＊

Things to be cautious about when greeting his family《After Marriage》②

Don't forget about "Mother's Day" which comes after GW!＊ If you live close to your in-laws, you can give a present on the day itself, but if you live far away, be sure to bring a gift during GW♡ It’s more pleasant for both if you can give it directly＊ After marriage, his parents are also your parents. Be mindful not to forget events like Mother's Day, Father's Day, and birthdays!♡

About your `outfit` when greeting ♡

When visiting his parents, a neat outfit creates a good impression＊ A collared top and knee-length skirt are clean and lovely♡ During Golden Week, the weather often warms up. However, avoid going bare-legged and make sure to wear stockings!♡ Keep a clean and pleasant outfit in mind by following these small manners＊

GW is an important break to spend with family ♡

Golden Week is a perfect time for dates with your boyfriend or hanging out with friends, but it’s also time to spend with family♡ Since his parents are making time for you, you would want to make it a wonderful occasion, right?♩ Be mindful of the little things and go greet his parents♡