"Have You Heard of 'Odekomi'? A Unique But Absolutely Satisfying Way for Newlyweds to Welcome Guests at the Reception!"
2020.03.16 published
How to Make an Entrance at the Reception???
The very first scene of the reception. It’s the moment when the bride and groom make their appearance in front of the guests.
However, entering with the emcee's cue of "The couple is entering!" seems quite ordinary. There's no time to talk with the guests, so isn't there a more unique way to make an entrance...? ><
For brides who are worried about such things, there is a wonderful entrance method I recommend ◎
Do You Know the Custom of "Welcoming"?
"Welcoming," as the name suggests, is a custom where the couple stands prepared at the entrance of the reception venue to greet the guests. In the past, it was also referred to as "Keihin" (迎賓)! Did the brides-to-be know about this "welcoming" performance???**
It’s a Ceremony that Has Been Around for a Long Time♡
This "welcoming" was quite common in traditional weddings! However, you don’t see it much in recent weddings, do you...? The reason seems to be that it can lead to an extension of the reception time! Depending on the number of guests, it can take about 25 minutes.
But this "welcoming" is actually quite simple to do. All you have to do is stand side by side in front of a gold screen or solemn painting. Of course, be mindful of your posture and graceful movements ♩
There are many wonderful benefits to "welcoming." Here are three of them.
Benefit 1 of "Welcoming": You Can Have Time to Talk with Guests♡
Once the reception starts, there isn’t much time to converse with the guests, right...? However, by welcoming them beforehand, you can hear their thoughts about the ceremony and catch up on their lives♡ It’s quite frustrating not being able to talk when you want to. That’s why welcoming is truly a delightful performance for the couple**
Benefit 2 of "Welcoming": Parents Can Also Greet Guests Together♡
Just like greeting guests after the reception, the parents of the couple can stand alongside them to welcome the guests♡ (Of course, it’s also fine if it’s just the bride and groom◎) It’s better to have time to greet the guests in advance to ease the parents' nerves♩
Benefit 3 of "Welcoming": You Can Express Your Gratitude♡
And perhaps the greatest charm of all! It allows you to directly express your feelings of "thank you" to each guest and wish them to "enjoy the day"! The guests will likely be surprised and touched by the couple's unexpected entrance, as they won’t expect them to be waiting...♡
Let's Cherish Time with Guests Through "Welcoming"♡
How was that??? The ultimate charm of "welcoming" is that it allows you to cherish time with your guests♡ The couple and the guests will definitely be satisfied if you do it! Why not try "welcoming" at your wedding as well?**