10 Types of Weddings That Guests Feel Grateful to Attend!
2016.06.17 published
We absolutely want it to be a great wedding for our guests.
One thing that is very concerning for the couple getting married is whether their guests think it was worth attending. When reading reviews about weddings, you often come across anonymous comments saying things like "It wasn't fun" or "I wish I hadn't attended." Weddings exist not just for the couple but also to make sure the guests have a wonderful experience! That is the bride's true feeling ♡
Therefore, let's introduce the kinds of weddings that guests truly think, "I'm glad I attended!" Please take a look for reference.
Weddings that guests are glad to attend ① The food is delicious
The morning of the wedding is usually busy for guests with preparations and moving around. Many people skip meals or eat very little, so their expectations for the food served at the reception rise even more. Therefore, it would be ideal to not skimp on food and choose the most delicious course available.
Weddings that guests are glad to attend ② The favors have good taste
After the reception or after-party, when it's time to head home and the favors are extremely heavy, it can be a bit demoralizing on top of feeling tired, right? While it's good to prioritize uniqueness and originality, light-weight favors are often appreciated for their good taste. Avoid perishable snacks as much as possible too.
Weddings that guests are glad to attend ③ Performers entertain
While the couple is away for their intermission, having a professional magician perform magic or a chef giving a greeting along with a cocktail show can be a splendid and enjoyable performance that everyone will appreciate. This is likely to stay in the guests' memories, right? ♡
Weddings that guests are glad to attend ④ The couple isn’t overly lovey-dovey
If the couple is too engrossed in their own world, talking too much and ignoring the guests, it can create an uncomfortable atmosphere. While being in love is wonderful, it’s important to prioritize the guests while they are with them. It’s essential to always be aware that guests are watching.
Weddings that guests are glad to attend ⑤ Handwritten cards at each place
When entering the reception hall and finding your seat, seeing a handwritten card from the bride or groom placed on the table is a delightful surprise! It’s touching to think that they took the time to write different message cards for each guest, even though they are likely busy themselves. The bride should definitely make sure to have enough time to write these messages.
Weddings that guests are glad to attend ⑥ A convenient location and uplifting atmosphere
Deciding on the reception venue and start time is often done in the early stages of wedding planning, making it hard to consider the guests' circumstances. However, it's best to choose a location that is easily accessible and a time that is neither too early nor too late. A venue with a good view or close to the sea can also create an uplifting atmosphere that guests will enjoy.
Weddings that guests are glad to attend ⑦ Feeling family love
Weddings that evoke a sense of family bonds between the couple and their families tend to make guests feel glad they attended. For example, if the bride's letter to her family is filled with love, it can bring tears to the audience. Seeing the grandparents of the couple trying hard to participate for their grandchildren is also quite moving.
Weddings that guests are glad to attend ⑧ Not feeling an "insider" vibe
At times, you see performances filled with inside jokes only friends or coworkers would understand. This creates a strong "insider" feel, making others guests uncomfortable. So, when asking for performances, ensure that they don’t give off an insider vibe. Fun performances enjoyed by everyone are indeed the best.
Weddings that guests are glad to attend ⑨ Short intermission times
The main stars of the reception are undoubtedly the couple! When the intermission time is long, it means the stars are absent, which can make guests feel bored. Therefore, keeping the number of outfit changes to a reasonable number while maximizing time spent with guests is the key to a wonderful wedding.
Weddings that guests are glad to attend ⑩ The couple consistently smiles
The last point is about weddings where the couple always keeps smiling. Since many guests may be meeting each other for the first time, making an effort to greet every guest with a smile and kindness will surely improve their satisfaction levels tremendously.
[Conclusion.] A wedding that considers guests first will surely result in joy.
How was that? It’s certainly good to prioritize your own ideas and desires, but considering what would make the best wedding for the guests will naturally lead you to the right answers. Be sure to prioritize and think of your guests first to create a wedding where they can sincerely say, "I’m glad I attended!" ♡