Essential Things to Know for Your Wedding! A Summary of Unwanted Wedding Favors Guests Don’t Want to Receive*
2016.06.25 published
\Pikoon/Caution Report on Wedding Favors*
Hello to all the brides-to-be ♡ Have you decided on the wedding favors to give to your guests at your wedding??? Whether you’re one of those who already have it figured out or still pondering it, there’s one thing I want you to confirm! That is: Have you chosen something that guests may find troublesome to receive?*
You often see posts online and in reviews saying things like “Honestly, that was a letdown...” or “I wasn’t happy at all...” right? Indeed, if you think from the guests' perspective, there must be things that would be troublesome to receive... So this time, I will introduce the types of wedding favors that brides should know are not wanted by guests*
Unwanted Wedding Favor No. 1: Tableware with Portraits or Initials*
The number one unwanted wedding favor among guests is tableware that has the couple's portraits, initials, or wedding date on it! Although fewer couples are choosing this type of favor at recent weddings, such dishes are heavy, and to be honest, nobody wants to use something that prominently displays the couple’s lovey-dovey vibes...! Instead of using tableware with portraits or initials as wedding favors, let’s keep those for your own home♡
For couples who love drinks, it’s common to choose local sake as a wedding favor! Of course, those who love alcohol would be happy about it, but for those who can’t drink or have a weak constitution, they end up feeling like they’ve lost out, since they have to give it away to someone else... If you really want to give alcohol as a wedding favor, choose your recipients carefully when gifting it*
Unwanted Wedding Favor No. 3: Japanese Sweets like Manju
Japanese sweets like red and white manju, often eaten on celebratory occasions, are actually not very popular as wedding favors either* Manju doesn’t have a long shelf life, and it’s not something you eat all at once... Plus, there’s no excitement when you open the box... There are many delicious Japanese sweets available, but focusing on appearance and shelf life would be a good idea♡
Unwanted Wedding Favor No. 4: Storybooks or CDs Based on the Couple's Story
Storybooks or CDs that tell the story of how the couple met or their memories probably won’t be appreciated><! I’m sure everyone knows by now, but items that heavily showcase the couple’s love tend to be disliked* And they might end up forgotten without ever being opened...!
Occasionally, brides may choose to give homemade cookies or cakes as wedding favors, but let’s avoid that* While it’s thoughtful to make something for the guests, compared to store-bought goods, homemade items often look cheaper... Given that you have received monetary gifts, it’s best to thank them with something nice♡
Unwanted Wedding Favor No. 6: Interior Items That Don't Match Guests' Tastes
Practical interior items or daily necessities are definitely appreciated, but if the design is too unusual or has a distinctive pattern, it can’t be placed in the guest’s home...! When selecting interior items or daily necessities, opt for well-known brands or simpler designs♡
Consider the Guests' Feelings First When Choosing Wedding Favors♡
How was that??? I introduced types of wedding favors that guests don’t appreciate receiving! Of course, it’s not that you absolutely can’t give these, but let’s prioritize choosing wedding favors based on what will make the guests happy*