"Wedding Preparation Guide: What Every Newly Engaged Bride Should Know and Do Six Months Before the Big Day♡"
2016.08.09 published
Congratulations to all the brides-to-be who have been proposed to! ♡
To all of you who have become brides-to-be after receiving a proposal from your beloved partner ♡ There are so many exciting things to look forward to, such as the wedding, honeymoon, and newlywed life!
However, on the flip side of this excitement, you might feel a bit anxious about when to start preparing for the wedding and what preparations are necessary. There are so many unknowns, right...?
The average wedding preparation period is 【11 months】!
It seems that many couples spend more than 10 months preparing for their wedding. You might think that’s a long time, but according to brides who have already gone through it, it surprisingly goes by quickly. To make your roughly one-year wedding preparation period enjoyable and without regrets, let’s start by【knowing what preparations are needed】! ♡
Here’s a simple introduction to the necessary【wedding preparations】to complete by about six months prior to the wedding! ♡
This time, I would like to briefly introduce the necessary 【wedding preparations】 that should be completed by about six months before the wedding and the flow of those preparations! ♡
What to do by six months before the wedding! 【Wedding Preparation】: ① Engagement Announcement
Once the wedding is decided, the first thing to do is call your parents to inform them! ♩ Since your parents wish for your happiness, they will surely be more delighted than anyone else ♡ Let’s report to each set of parents over the phone and decide on a date to visit their homes for a formal introduction.
On the day of the introduction, make sure to dress appropriately, use polite language, and maintain a respectful attitude to make a good impression on your partner's parents ♩ Don’t forget to bring a gift as a token of appreciation! Although it might be really nerve-wracking, you don't have to be overly stiff! Remember the joy of meeting the parents who raised your beloved partner! ♡
What to do by six months before the wedding! 【Wedding Preparation】: ② Choosing the Engagement Ring
Apart from wedding rings, it is common for the man to give the woman an engagement ring when they get engaged. Some might have already received the engagement ring when proposed to ♩ After discussing the budget with your partner, since you will be the one wearing the ring, take the lead in the conversation about the engagement ring ♩ There are many articles about 【engagement rings】 on marry, so check them out for reference! ♡
What to do by six months before the wedding! 【Wedding Preparation】: ③ Family Dinner
Finally, the two families meet for the face-to-face dinner; it's natural to feel a bit formal about it ♡ Some hotels or restaurants offer dinner party plans, so select a proper venue to avoid any rudeness! ♡ Considering that some families care about auspicious dates, it’s good to choose a lucky day for the event between six to eight months before the wedding.
Dress appropriately according to the restaurant's dress code. Also, it’s common courtesy for both families to exchange gifts, so research in advance and choose items of a similar budget ♡ Some meticulous couples even prepare brochures with profiles of each other’s families for the dinner! ♡
What to do by six months before the wedding! 【Wedding Preparation】: ④ Venue Search
When searching for a venue, start by discussing conditions and what you both want, including timing, location, budget, and guest numbers ♩ Since different venues offer different options and styles, it's important to research without compromising!
Actively participate in bridal fairs to check the venue's ambiance and food ♩ It’s also crucial to receive estimates! When requesting an estimate, make sure to account for a higher number of guests and ask for the highest menu package to avoid additional costs later! ◎
What to do by six months before the wedding! 【Wedding Preparation】: ⑤ Dress Selection
Once the venue is confirmed, it’s time for the much-anticipated 【dress selection】! ♡ When you think of weddings and brides, a wedding dress comes to mind, right? ♡ In addition to the wedding dress, there's also a dress for the reception, so start by discussing the number of dresses and the budget ◎
It's okay to choose a dress two to three months before the wedding, but if you're renting, popular dresses can quickly become unavailable, so it’s recommended to act early. Additionally, if you’re considering purchasing or custom-making a dress, be sure to confirm the time needed with the store.
Since dresses come in various silhouettes and styles, look at catalogs and articles about dresses on marry to expand your idea of the dress you want ♡ Once you have a decent idea, visit shops to try on dresses ♩ You’re sure to find “the one…” ♡
What to do by six months before the wedding! 【Wedding Preparation】: ⑥ Workplace Announcement
Once the 【wedding preparations】 are progressing, it's time to announce to your workplace! ♡ The most courteous way is to report first to your direct supervisor ◎ Since you might take time off for the wedding and honeymoon, it’s best to inform them with plenty of lead time.
When making the announcement, it’s a good idea to decide with your partner whether you’re inviting colleagues to the wedding beforehand. If you decide not to invite them, be sure to provide a proper reason, such as "we're having a private ceremony for family only."
That concludes the essential 【wedding preparations】 to be completed by six months prior. ◎
By preparing in advance, you can have the best wedding ever! ♡
For brides-to-be who are working, it may seem like there is particularly little time and tend to feel rushed, but looking at it this way, if you prepare steadily, you can enjoy the 【wedding preparations】 too! ♡
Since the venue, dress, and rings significantly influence your once-in-a-lifetime memories, it’s crucial to start preparing early to select satisfying options. ◎ Let’s kick off the preparations early and enjoy a relaxed and fun 【wedding preparation】 period! ♡