"The Engagement Ring Return Dilemma: What Should I Give? Popular Ranking of Gifts for Returning an Engagement Ring"

2016.08.30 published

Should You Give a Return Gift After Receiving an Engagement Ring?

After being proposed to by the person you love with the words "Let's get married," some people have an engagement ceremony while others do not. Either way, should you give a return gift?

The answer is, "Yes, you should!" For those who have an engagement ceremony, it's common to prepare a return gift. Even for those who do not have one, many brides still choose to give a return gift◎

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What is the Average for Engagement Ring Return Gifts? What Should You Choose?

The average return gift for an engagement ring is about "half the price of the engagement ring." The average price for engagement rings is considered to be around "150,000 to 300,000 yen," so it would be reasonable to consider the return gift to be around "70,000 to 150,000 yen." Of course, this might vary depending on the specific engagement present received, so it’s important to subtly research the price of the item given to you, even though it may seem rude◎

Now that we know the average for the return gift is about "70,000 to 150,000 yen," let’s look at what type of return gifts brides are choosing. We’ll present it in a ranking format, so let’s take a look!＊

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＼Return Gift for Engagement Ring／ 1st Place: Watch

The impressive 1st place goes to a watch! The reason for its popularity is that it is practical and can be used for a long time♩ It’s a lovely bonus that they can wear it every day◎

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In particular, "Tag Heuer" is a popular brand among men♡ It’s a watch brand, and in Japan, tennis player Kei Nishikori is the image model, making it very popular＊

This bride received a "Franck Muller" watch as a gift＊ Franck Muller is also a Swiss watch brand known for its delicate design and beautiful form◎ A timeless design watch is certainly a joyful gift♡

＼Return Gift for Engagement Ring／ 2nd Place: Suit

The 2nd place choice is a suit! While some people gift off-the-rack suits, it’s popular to choose a custom-made suit since it's a once-in-a-lifetime occasion◎ You can never have too many suits, can you?♡

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Furthermore, a reason behind choosing a suit as a return gift is because “it can be worn during the meeting or engagement ceremony.” These important days mark the beginning for the couple, and many brides wish their partners to have a new suit for the occasion◎

Some brides even gave a tailoring voucher for a custom suit as a return gift＊ They mentioned that the suit is made as a long suit to be used as a tuxedo and then altered to be an everyday suit after the ceremony◎ Isn’t it a clever two-in-one idea? The voucher is also a great item to use if it doesn’t arrive in time for the engagement ceremony♩

＼Return Gift for Engagement Ring／ 3rd Place: Business Accessories

Business accessories take 3rd place on the list＊ There’s a popular opinion that men don’t often treat themselves to new business accessories。 Due to wear and tear, it’s great to have multiple pairs of dress shoes as well＊

Gifts of business bags are also popular◎ Since it's something used daily, many men would like to have something a bit nicer＊ It’s perfect as a return gift for an engagement ring♩

A larger business bag would make a great gift for a partner who travels frequently for work＊ A bag that can fit changes and a laptop would be very useful for a one-night business trip◎ It’s key to select a bag that suits your partner’s work style♡

＼Return Gift for Engagement Ring／ 4th Place: Everyday Items

Giving everyday items is also a lovely idea＊ Especially wallets, which are used daily; getting a new one to build a new family seems motivating◎ A simple Dunhill wallet can be used no matter the age♡

For partners who enjoy travel or have frequent business trips, a suitcase is recommended◎ A Zero Halliburton suitcase is made of aluminum and is durable, making it a great long-lasting option＊

A key case return gift is a must for couples setting up a new home together◎ Opening the door with a new key case should remind both of their happiness at being together♡

＼Return Gifts for Engagement Rings／ Bonus

While not in the rankings, some brides present unique return gifts for their engagement rings, so let’s take a look!♡

A bride gifted a new guitar to her partner who loves playing guitar♡ After all, it’s wonderful to give something that he would love most◎

Another bride gave a wine from the year her partner was born. It must have been a stylish gift that surprised him♡ Gifts that create memories are wonderful, aren’t they?＊

A bride gifted a down jacket from the luxury French brand "Moncler" as a return gift. Moncler is a beloved brand for climbers known for its excellent durability＊ Having a timeless down jacket makes winter something to look forward to♡

Return Gifts for Engagement Rings Vary from Person to Person♡

Returning gifts for engagement rings differ from standard options to personalized gifts tailored to the recipient＊ What’s most important is to give a gift that your partner truly desires and will appreciate◎ Listen to his opinions closely, and make it a memorable return gift for the engagement ring that both of you will cherish forever♩