"To Those Considering Marriage: Should You Have a Wedding? Recommended Wedding Approaches for Different Bride Concerns*"

2016.09.08 published

The Crossroads of Destiny! Should You Have a Wedding or Not?

Once you've decided to get married, the next thing to think about is whether to have a wedding or not, right?＊

A wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime memorable day. It’s a happy day celebrated with your loved ones as you marry the person you adore♡ You can show your parents and relatives your bridal appearance, and it's a day that marks the commitment of "we will live together from now on."◎

⇒ Wonderful reasons abound♡ A summary of moments when senior brides say, "I’m glad we had a wedding"

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However, weddings can be expensive, the preparations seem difficult, you may not like being in the spotlight, and you might wonder if it even has meaning at all. I believe there are quite a few people with these thoughts…!

For those brides-to-be, we present solutions based on your concerns about whether to have a wedding or not＊

[Concerns about whether to have a wedding or not] ① It's expensive…

For brides concerned about the costs, we absolutely recommend having a wedding◎ A wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime event. You wouldn't want to regret not having one for the rest of your life...!

While weddings do cost money, there are plenty of ways to save! There are many budget wedding plans available now, so consulting about them can be helpful◎ Some brides found that after receiving wedding gifts, their out-of-pocket expenses turned out to be surprisingly less than expected. Some have decided to wait until they've saved enough money to have their wedding. Promising to have a wedding on their third wedding anniversary makes saving fun, right?♩

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[Concerns about whether to have a wedding or not] ② Not comfortable in the spotlight…

There are brides who are not comfortable being in the spotlight at their wedding＊ It’s true that the bride and groom are the main characters at a wedding, so they do stand out.

For those couples who are not comfortable with the attention, how about having a restaurant wedding or a "1.5 party," which allows for a closer style with guests? Choosing a more casual wedding can help ease that tension◎

The three intriguing reasons why the intermediate form between the reception and after-party, the ‘1.5 party,’ is popular

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[Concerns about whether to have a wedding or not] ③ Limited friends…

Some grooms and brides have few friends. They might not have friends they can invite to the wedding, or perhaps their friends live far away, even overseas＊

If you have few friends, choosing not to invite anyone is also an option◎ A wedding with only family and relatives can be more homely and lovely♩ A wedding that makes it easy to express gratitude to your family is a plus♡

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[Concerns about whether to have a wedding or not] ④ It seems like a lot of work…

There have been opinions that preparing for a wedding seems overwhelming. Brides who are busy with work may feel anxious about having enough time to prepare for the wedding.

For brides who are anxious about preparation, we recommend wedding venues that offer expedited or quick weddings that can be done in a short time♡ Since the preparation period can be as short as three months, it’s advisable to schedule it during a less busy season at work＊

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[Concerns about whether to have a wedding or not] ⑤ Don't understand the meaning of having one…

There are couples who wonder if there’s even a point in having a wedding, especially considering the money and time it involves＊ It's understandable that weddings can feel like a spectacle, leading to the sentiment that there’s no meaning.

However, a wedding can also be a way to honor your parents＊ Many parents want to see their beloved daughter or son in their joy-filled appearance♡ Incorporating your parents' opinions and treating it as a way to show respect and gratitude is a good idea◎

But, for those who truly don’t want to, there’s no need to force it＊ If the bride and groom aren’t having fun, it loses its meaning. Nevertheless, even if you don’t see the necessity of a wedding, as a girl, there’s likely a part of you that wants to wear a wedding dress, kimono, or traditional white attire!♡ Nowadays, there are plans for photo weddings where you can just capture memories, so why not consider that?

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[Concerns about whether to have a wedding or not] ⑥ Poor relationships with parents or relatives…

Unfortunately, some may have passed away or might have strained relationships with relatives. Some brides may wish to have a wedding but want to avoid conflicts over family matters as much as possible.

For those couples, a ‘1.5 party’ just for friends or a destination wedding just for the two of you are great recommendations◎ You can have a wedding even without family! There’s no need to stick to traditional wedding formats♡

Taking the best of the reception and after-party♡ What is the rumored ‘1.5 party’ trendy among stylish brides?＊

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You are free to have a wedding, and you are free not to have one too＊

Each person’s concerns about weddings are different＊ Deciding whether to have a wedding or not is a dilemma many face. However, for those who feel even a little bit of "I want to have a wedding!", we recommend finding some way to make it happen♡

A wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime event. I hope you can make decisions about your wedding that you won’t regret◎

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