"Want to Be Proposed to Soon? Here Are 4 Important Tips for Women to Keep in Mind to Encourage His Proposal! ♡"
2016.09.24 published
He Won't Propose to Me…
How long has it been since you started dating him? I want to get married soon, and I hope to have children in a few years, but he doesn't seem to show any signs of wanting that. There are surprisingly many people who have such frustrating concerns…!
With so many married couples around me, I don't want to miss my marriageable age! For those of you who feel this way, here are 【4 things to keep in mind to get proposed to】*
\I Want to Be Proposed to/ Things to Keep in Mind to Get Proposed to ① Improve Yourself
What kind of woman do you think a man thinks, "I want to marry her"? There are various factors like being cute, having a good figure, or having a great personality, but the most important one is being "someone who never spares effort," right? ♡
Not only your appearance but also putting in your best effort at work makes you shine! Let’s make daily efforts so that he thinks, "I want to be with her forever!"*
\I Want to Be Proposed to/ Things to Keep in Mind to Get Proposed to ② Get Along with Family
One of the worries about getting married is the "mother-in-law problem", right? He might be hesitating about marriage because of such anxieties. Perhaps he’s heard horror stories about in-law relationships from married colleagues…!
As a way to cope, it's important to maintain a good relationship with his parents if you're dating, but it's also effective to "get along with your own family"* If you’re friendly with your family, he will naturally think, "She'll probably get along well with my family too." ♡
\I Want to Be Proposed to/ Things to Keep in Mind to Get Proposed to ③ Listen to Friends' Stories
The influence of surrounding friends on deciding to get married is significant, right? When those around you start getting married, you might think, "Maybe it's my turn soon..." There are times when marriage rushes happen, right?*
So, try to casually ask about his friends' marriage stories ◎ If there’s mention of friends getting married, that’s a good sign! Talk about how your friends are also experiencing a wedding rush (?). Even if there are no friends getting married in his circle, hint that your friends are getting married somehow*
\I Want to Be Proposed to/ Things to Keep in Mind to Get Proposed to ④ Be Capable of Housework
Once you're married, one of the things you'll have to do is "housework." Even if both of you are working now, it becomes unavoidable once children arrive. Don’t you think it’s a high hurdle for men to marry a woman who can’t do housework at all?
Therefore, let's make sure you can handle the basics of cooking, laundry, and cleaning* It’s okay if you can’t do everything perfectly! As long as you can manage somewhat, that’s sufficient ◎
If You’ve Tried These 4 Things but Still Haven't Been Proposed to…
If you’ve tried these 4 things and still haven’t received a proposal, it might be worth asking him directly, "What are your thoughts about marriage?"* Discuss your desire to get married and how he envisions his future.
If you are going to get married in the future, having such discussions is essential. Take your time to open his heart. Leaving a wedding magazine at home without saying anything will only put pressure on him, so it's better to avoid that. By the way, this is referred to as "Zekuhara"…!
A proposal is a life-changing decision for him. By not rushing him and becoming a wonderful girlfriend he thinks, "I want to marry her!" about, he should propose to you♡