"Three Important Things for Parents to Keep in Mind When Their Children Get Married!"

2016.10.03 published

Weddings Can Make Parents Anxious Too!

While it's common for the bride and groom to be inexperienced during their wedding, what about the parents?

For those with siblings, it may not be their first experience, but there are many who are attending their daughter or son’s wedding for the first time. Even if they have attended many weddings, including their own, participating as parents brings a different perspective. They probably don't remember what they were doing during their own wedding...!

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Points to Inform Parents About for the Wedding

When your parents look worried, it certainly makes the bride and groom anxious as well! So, it's a good idea to inform them in advance about “the things to keep in mind!”

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What Parents Should Be Aware of at the Wedding ① Consider Relatives and Guests

Parents know their relatives best, right? They should actively help care for them. It would also be reassuring to discuss transportation, accommodation arrangements, and costs ahead of time with your parents.

Make sure to confirm the outfits and timing for the big day, and also ask them to consider the needs of guests who may require wheelchairs, children, or those who have special dietary requirements like diabetes.

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What Parents Should Be Aware of at the Wedding ② Coordinate with the Other Parents

A wedding represents the connection between two families. It’s important to “align the attire” to maintain harmony. Discuss whether traditional clothing or western attire will be used, and what types (morning suits or formal wear) will be worn, to ensure both sets of parents are on the same page.

Additionally, there are moments during the wedding when monetary gifts or transportation allowances are given. Typically, the groom’s side handles the groom's side and the bride's side takes care of the bride's side, but it’s important to clearly decide who gives gifts to common acquaintances or staff to avoid confusion.

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What Parents Should Be Aware of at the Wedding ③ Support Their Son or Daughter's Inner Well-being

Preparing for the wedding can truly be exhausting. Didn't your mom and dad have a tough time preparing for their own wedding? Moreover, these days DIY weddings often involve creating handmade items. They might also be dealing with conflicts with their partner or feeling mentally and physically drained.

Even though they might feel hesitant to ask for support, it's a great opportunity to lean on your parents during tough times. They will likely remember their own hardships and want to help you out.

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Let’s Make the Best Wedding with Help from Our Parents ♡

For parents, it is their first time seeing their daughter or son get married too. Since the ways of doing things and mindsets have changed over the years, it’s important to have good discussions and share various insights with them.

Many newlyweds find that their relationships with their parents deepen and they begin to communicate more. Let’s put in extra effort into the wedding preparations as a way to express gratitude for everything so far!

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