What You Need to Know When Getting Married! Who to Ask for Your Marriage Registration Witness?

Who Should You Ask to Be a Witness for Your Marriage Registration?

Once your marriage is decided, the official document you will submit to declare "we're getting married" is the "Marriage Registration." *There are many formal rules regarding the marriage registration! One of the most common questions is, "Who should I ask to fill in the witness section?" Many people wonder about this.

In fact, anyone who is an 'adult' and can 'verify the intent of the couple to marry' can be a witness. *Unlike a guarantor, as they only certify the marriage, there is, of course, no responsibility even if the couple later divorces. ◎

I Want to Know Who Experienced Brides Asked!

While it's said that the marriage registration witness can be "anyone," it can actually be quite challenging when you are given this option. So, who do experienced brides ask? Here are some examples from brides who have gone through this situation. *

Who Should You Choose as a Witness for Your Marriage Registration? ① Parents

The most common choice for wedding witnesses is "parents." *Since there are two spaces to fill, it is often either "both parents" or "one parent each." ◎

You want your parents, who have supported you thus far, to witness your marriage. Let's ask them with the gratitude for what they've done and the hope for their continued support in your lives together! ♡

Since location may also be a factor, if you definitely want your parents to be witnesses, it’s a good idea to contact them early and get their signatures as soon as possible. ♩

Who Should You Choose as a Witness for Your Marriage Registration? ② Friends

The next most common choice for marriage registration witnesses is "friends." *You likely consulted your close friends about your partner even before dating and have shared many outings together! ♡ Asking the friends who understand your relationship best can be really special. ◎

There’s also a lovely story about two best friends who each became witnesses for each other's weddings. It’s quite a rare experience to be able to do that! ♡

Who Should You Choose as a Witness for Your Marriage Registration? ③ Mentors or Supervisors

There are couples who have had long-standing mentors or supervisors as their witnesses. *Couples often realize that they are who they are today because of the guidance and support they received from their mentors or supervisors. If that resonates with you, don't hesitate to ask! ◎ Your supervisor or mentor will surely celebrate the marriage of their important subordinate or student. ♩

Additionally, it's also recommended for couples who have been dating since their student days or those who are dating within the same workplace. Since both parties are familiar with each other, there may have been times when they caused worry. Thus, their marriage is an important event for their supervisors and mentors too! ♡

Who Should You Choose as a Witness for Your Marriage Registration? ④ Others

There are various other people who may serve as witnesses for the marriage registration. *There’s even a couple who forgot to fill in the witness section but urgently needed to submit on that day, so they asked their landlord! The landlord was surprised but graciously provided their signature. ◎

If you're really in a bind, there are also proxy services available for marriage registration. *It's worth considering if you find yourself in a truly difficult situation. ♡

Anyone Can Be a Witness for the Marriage Registration! ♡

For your marriage registration, anyone can be your witness! ♡ However, it’s preferable for them to be someone with a close connection to both of you, such as your parents, friends, mentors, or supervisors. Let's formally ask a witness and start a wonderful married life together! *