"Common Mistakes to Avoid at Wedding Receptions and After Parties: A Guide to Preventing Long Speeches and Unreadable Movie Texts"

2019.11.16 published

What are the No-Go Productions That Can't Just Be Excused as "Oops..."?

Failures and mishaps are part of weddings. Guests understand that all too well. Of course, there are incidents that cannot be prevented no matter how careful the couple may be, but still, certain no-go productions and ideas that may offend guests can be largely prevented in advance!

Here are some common wedding scenarios that most guests dislike and can't just be excused as "Oops..." If any of these sound familiar, it's a good idea to make improvements now!

No-Go Example for Banquets and After Parties ①: Speeches That Are Too Long...

Do you remember how painful it was to listen to the principal's long speeches at gatherings when you were a kid? Similarly, hearing a guest's excessively long speech when they're not the main focus can lead to guests becoming bored and stressed.

Since speeches are often requested from superiors or elders, the couple might have a hard time managing this, but it would be good to provide a heads-up such as "Please keep speeches within X minutes!" in advance!

No-Go Example for Banquets and After Parties ②: Text in Videos Is Hard to Read...

Modern banquets often include various videos like opening and profile movies. However, a common tragedy is that the text is too small for guests to read... Other complaints include the text color being too light to see!

You might not notice this while creating the video on your computer, but remember that the guests watching the video are in the banquet hall! Aim to make the text larger and use clear colors!

No-Go Example for Banquets and After Parties ③: Too Many Performances...

The most exciting part of the banquet is often the guest performances, which make the couple really happy, whether it's friends dancing or surprise videos. However, if there are too many or if they go on too long, it can lead to scheduling issues and even bore family and work-related guests!

It's important to maintain the schedule while creating a performance time that everyone can enjoy. Additionally, the couple should ensure that the fun does not overly exclude family-oriented guests.

No-Go Example for Banquets and After Parties ④: Be Cautious of Innuendos...

At the after party, games hosted by the couple or the organizer are common. What to be careful about is avoiding innuendo topics or bringing up a party-like vibe! While guests are adults and can understand, making them uncomfortable can ruin the fun.

Games that pair men and women, require too much physical activity, or involve getting clothes or faces dirty should be kept to a minimum!

No-Go Example for Banquets and After Parties ⑤: Gifts That Are Too Heavy...

What is the weight of the carefully chosen gifts? Heavy gifts can cause even the most successful wedding to suffer for the guests on their way home! Be especially cautious with dishes or appliances as gifts.

It is said that the average weight of bags carried by women in daily life is around 3-4 kg, so be mindful not to exceed that weight! It would be wonderful to provide gifts that are light but appreciated!

Couples Should Be Aware and Careful About No-Go Examples!

How was that? We shared some definite no-go scenarios common in banquets and after parties. I believe the most dangerous situation is when the couple is unaware and ends up causing discomfort to the guests! Be sure to prepare for the wedding by considering the guests' feelings. May your wedding be a wonderful occasion!♡