"I'm Too Embarrassed to Do It! How to Handle a 'Kiss Call' at the After-Party Like a Pro*"

2020.01.25 published

When You're Called for a Kiss, Are You Happy? Or is it Unpleasant?

It can be said that "Kiss Calls" are sure to happen at wedding receptions and after-parties. As the party progresses towards its mid to late stages, the guests get quite excited, and when someone starts chanting, "Kiss! Kiss! Kiss!" the call gradually grows louder...!

Such "Kiss Calls" are likely to happen after the groom's speech, following entertainment performances, or at the time of the closing, but... how do you feel if you are called for a "Kiss Call"? Are you happy about it, or do you dislike it?

@yuih_wd

For Brides Who Don't Like "Kiss Calls," Here Are Some Good Ways to Deal with It♡

If you are a bride who thinks, "I'm not that bothered by a 'Kiss Call'!" you can just go ahead and give a little kiss♡

However, there are surely brides who feel, "I'm embarrassed and I don’t want to...," "I'm not good with such calls...," or "It's in front of my parents and relatives..."＊ Therefore, this time, I will share some effective ways to handle the situation for brides who do not wish for "Kiss Calls"!

@ykmnmk0512

How to Handle a "Kiss Call" #1: Strongly Request the MC or Organizers.

The safest way to avoid a "Kiss Call" is to strongly ask the MC of the wedding and the organizers of the after-party not to let it happen. Essentially, the MC and organizers control the flow of the event, so if you make a strong request to them, it should be fine＊

How to Handle a "Kiss Call" #2: Contact Groups Likely to Start the Call in Advance.

You can usually identify who among the guests might start the "Kiss Call," right? Typically, it's friends from the groom's side...＊ Therefore, it’s wise to reach out to the group of guests likely to initiate the call in advance. They will understand the hints!

How to Handle a "Kiss Call" #3: Create an Emotional Atmosphere.

It is said that some brides have successfully created such a moving and tense atmosphere that no "Kiss Calls" could be initiated. For example, to prevent a "Kiss Call" at the end of the after-party, one bride read a letter that moved everyone in the room to tears! Even tipsy, cheerful guests would hesitate to call for a kiss in that kind of atmosphere.

How to Handle a "Kiss Call" #4: A Kiss on the Forehead or Cheek.

If a "Kiss Call" does occur despite your efforts, the best strategy is to have him give you a kiss on the forehead or cheek! It’s certainly easier on the emotions than connecting lips for a kiss♡

**Caution:** Rejecting a "Kiss Call" Too Much Can Kill the Mood...

Since Japanese people are not accustomed to kissing in front of others, it may be understandable... but if the bride rejects the "Kiss Call" too much, it can create a cold atmosphere in the venue＊

Guests will start to feel, "It would be nice if she could provide a little service at least once..." So, if a "Kiss Call" happens, I think it's best to just give a little kiss right away.

@lva__wd

If You Dislike "Kiss Calls," Prepare in Advance♡

What do you think? In wedding receptions and after-parties, "Kiss Calls" from lively guests tend to happen. If you’re a bride who feels embarrassed about kissing in front of others, communicate this to the MC or friends in advance to prepare.

Even so, if a "Kiss Call" occurs, I believe it's wiser to accept the kiss rather than refuse it♡

@yuih_wd