"Be Prepared for Any Questions: A Summary of How to Speak for the Groom's Father During the Thank-You Speech"

2020.01.16 published

What Is "Father's Speech" from Both Families Like?

At the wedding reception, at the end, the father of the groom (or the father of the bride) expresses gratitude to the guests on behalf of both families. What kind of things are usually said in this father's speech? Let's study so that you can respond in case the father or the groom asks you.

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How to Speak in the Groom's Father's Speech ① Opening Words

The beginning of the groom's father's speech includes self-introduction and greetings. It's an important moment that draws the attention of the guests.

Sample) Thank you very much for attending the wedding reception of my son, ○○ (groom), and ○○ (bride), despite your busy schedules. I am ○○, the father of the groom, who was just introduced. On behalf of both families, I would like to express my gratitude in this small way.

How to Speak in the Groom's Father's Speech ② Words of Gratitude to Guests

After the opening words, first convey your gratitude to the guests.

It is solely thanks to all of you gathered here that my son, ○○, has found such a wonderful partner in ○○-san and has been able to celebrate this auspicious day today. The many congratulatory words and warm encouragement from everyone here have been an overwhelming honor for me as a parent.

How to Speak in the Groom's Father's Speech ③ Thoughts as a Father

After expressing gratitude, share anecdotes about the groom's childhood or your first impression of the bride. This section can evoke either heartfelt emotions or some laughter. This is the part where the father can show off his skills.

Sample) Embarrassingly, I, ○○, have lived a work-centered life, leaving household matters to my wife. I haven't done much as a father, but my son has grown up to be a humble and kind child. That is all thanks to all of you. Thank you very much.

Sample) Since childhood, my son, ○○, has been a diligent worker and was dedicated to soccer from elementary school through university. He never shifted his focus to other sports and is still a member of an adult soccer club. Dear bride, ○○-san, my son has grown into an earnest person. Although he has some messy and slightly careless traits, he is a kind and hardworking child. Please take good care of him.

Sample) About a year ago, my son introduced me to his bride, ○○-san. As you can see, she is a very intelligent and considerate young lady, and I thought my son was lucky to have her. If only I had been born 25 years earlier…! Surely, ○○-san's parents did a marvelous job raising her.

How to Speak in the Groom's Father's Speech ④ Closing Words

End the groom's father's speech with the feeling of "please continue to take care of the couple."

Sample) Today, as they stand at the starting point of a new life together, they are still quite immature in the eyes of a parent. We ask for your warm guidance and encouragement going forward. In closing, I would like to express my gratitude on behalf of both families, and I wish good health and happiness to all the guests present today. Thank you very much.

Things You Want to Teach the Groom and His Father!

The groom's father's speech is a moment that earns respect from the guests. A father who speaks manfully and with dignity will surely look great.

It’s reassuring to have this information in mind so that you won’t panic when asked about how to do the [Groom's Father's Speech].

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