Essential Check Before Attending a Wedding! Let's Review the Taboo Words Not to Say at Such a Joyous Occasion*
2016.10.26 published
If You Say It, It's a No-Go! Let's Reconfirm NG Words*
Do you all already know the so-called taboo words that shouldn't be used at weddings? Those who have previously given a speech at a friend's wedding might have looked into it in detail, but in everyday life, we usually don’t pay attention to taboo words, right?
However, the NG words you shouldn't use at weddings surprisingly include words that are often used in everyday life... So, to avoid creating an awkward atmosphere by accidentally saying something inappropriate or being thought of as inconsiderate, it's essential to check taboo words closely before any formal events like weddings and funerals!
Thus, in this article, we'll introduce some NG words that you might mistakenly say along with their correct alternatives. Please take note!
Part 1*Be Careful With Redundant Words...!
Redundant words that imply repeating marriage or misfortune are not absolutely off-limits, but they're something to be cautious of in speeches and conversations*
①× various ➡ ◎ many, diverse
②× finally, increasingly ➡ ◎ furthermore, even more
③× definitely ➡ ◎ certainly, absolutely
④× again ➡ ◎ once more
⑤× repeatedly, time and again ➡ ◎ additionally, deeply
Part 2*Be Careful With Words That Have Negative Connotations...!
There are many words we commonly use that hold negative meanings, such as "cut," "part," and "separate"! Even if there's no ill intention, you want to be careful with these words at a wedding, which is a celebratory occasion*
Part 3*Be Careful With Words That Describe Character...!
At weddings, whether from the perspective of the bride and groom or the guests, people often discuss certain individuals. While it's fine among friends where jokes are understood, some words might create a negative impression depending on the listener, so let's check them out!
Finally, here are some words and conversation topics that are simply off-limits* Even if you think it’s fine because you’re close with the bride and groom, remember that you’re not the only one hearing those comments; there are relatives and colleagues as well!
① Self-praise is a no-go!
② Bringing up past romantic stories is also a no-go!
③ Excessive vulgarity is a no-go!
④ Comments about wanting them to have children are also a no-go!
⑤ Avoid expressions like “seriously,” “to be honest,” “for real,” or “that's crazy,” and use polite language instead!
Enjoy the Wedding While Being Mindful of NG Words*
We introduced the taboo words, or NG words, that shouldn't be used at weddings. Many of them might be used in everyday conversations, catching some of you off guard, right? Before attending a wedding, refer back to this and enjoy pleasant conversations and laughter!