3 Ways to Become a 'Loved Bride' on Your Wedding Day to Win Over His Relatives♡
2017.01.19 published
I want to build a good relationship with his relatives...!
Marriage is a connection between both families. Of course, you want to build a good relationship not only with your partner's father and mother but also with his relatives◎
While you may have the opportunity to meet his relatives before the wedding, there are certainly cases where it's "nice to meet you" at the wedding ceremony. In any case, it seems rare to become "super close♡" before the big day.
Even though you might not meet them often afterward, it's a common desire for everyone to leave a good impression on his relatives, hoping that they'll tell your partner, “You’ve found a wonderful wife♡.”
For brides, here are some tips on how to be "loved by his relatives at the wedding." Please keep these in mind to become an adored bride♡
I want to be liked by his relatives♡ How to be a charming bride: Method 1 - Make a proper greeting!
The first important thing to be liked by his relatives is to "make a proper greeting!" Many brides might think this is obvious, but on the wedding day, the bride and groom are incredibly busy and often forget.
It’s especially important to be mindful during introductions when it’s your first time meeting them. Most people meet his relatives for the first time during the formal family introductions. However, since it’s mainly a ceremonial introduction, it’s hard to have a direct conversation.
Therefore, the next chance to greet his relatives is during the welcome party or during the reception! However, during this time, you might get caught up with catching up with friends you haven't seen in a while or greeting work colleagues, making it easy to forget to greet his relatives again...
There are chances when they come to the main table or during the table rounds, but if you’re rushed and only take photos in a procedural manner, that’s the worst, isn't it?
In that case, his relatives might think, "Even though we came to the wedding, we didn't even get a greeting!” How sad would that be!
So, when you meet his relatives, make sure to say, "Thank you for coming (from afar) today. Please enjoy yourselves. I look forward to your continued support." It's great to be able to say this to each of his relatives, especially when meeting them for the first time*
I want to be liked by his relatives♡ How to be a charming bride: Method 2 - Be elegant and refined*
The second way to be liked by his relatives is to be an elegant and refined bride♡
To his relatives, he has likely been a cute presence since he was little. They must be looking forward to seeing "What kind of bride will he marry?"
However, if on the wedding day you are eating with your mouth wide open while laughing, calling friends out loudly, sitting with your legs spread in a mini dress, or eating with your elbows on the table... don’t you think they might feel disappointed?
Your own family's relatives have known you since childhood, so they may observe your actions with a gentle gaze, but his relatives are different. In the worst case, they might think, "He’s unfortunate to have caught a vulgar woman"…!
You definitely want to avoid such situations* It’s wise to behave elegantly and refined at the reception where you meet new relatives, and then let loose at the after-party with relatives absent◎
I want to be liked by his relatives♡ How to be a charming bride: Method 3 - Cherish him and his parents
This is something that doesn't even need to be stated, but… what his relatives most desire is to see the happy couple. And for them to see his parents happy is also important◎
To his relatives, he and his parents are important figures; they may be beloved grandsons, daughters, sons, brothers, sisters, or cousins... they should be precious to everyone.
It's truly a joyous occasion to have new family members join in! If the bride can build a good relationship with him and his parents and cherish them... there’s nothing more to say◎
Ultimately, if you can cherish all the dear family members of your beloved partner, there’s no problem♡ Gaining new family members is a wonderful thing* Let's strive to get along♡
The first step in family relationships♡ Let's build a good relationship with his relatives◎
How did you find the methods for becoming a bride loved by his relatives? They are all ordinary tips, but at the wedding, it’s easy to forget greetings or get overly enthusiastic, which can lead your own family to take center stage over his family…
You wouldn’t want to ruin the long-term family relationship over such things, right? Build good relationships with his relatives at the wedding and stay close forever♡